Should This Wife Have to Be Sexier? I’m Asking YOU!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 26, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

I need your help to figure out how to help this woman who wants to be sexier. I can’t do it myself, because Saturday, I did this: I was cutting an onion to make dinner when Connor and Rebecca came back to town for the weekend and after the first slice...

Parenting Reader Questions: I Found My Daughter’s Sex Toy, My Husband Co-Sleeps with our Daughter, and More!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 19, 2019 | Parenting Small Children, Parenting Teenagers

What do you do if you found your daughter’s sex toy, or your son says something highly offensive at school? I have such a huge backlog of reader questions that I’ve decided to take a few Mondays this summer when I normally do a deep-dive into one question...

Reader Question: My Husband is a Racist

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 1, 2019 | Resolving Conflict

What do you do if your husband is a racist, and his beliefs cause rifts in your family?I’ve got a bit of a heavy reader question today!It’s Canada Day here, but I’m going to publish a post today and then take Thursday & Friday off for the July 4...

Sex Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 25, 2019 | Sex

Here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum we get a LOT of reader questions–especially about sex!We can’t answer anything personally, but Tammy (who goes through them all) does set aside ones that are particularly interesting, crop up a lot, or I haven’t...

Reader Question: My Husband Checks Out Other Women at the Beach!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 24, 2019 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

Summer is here, and many of us are heading to the beach! But what do you do if the beach is a minefield because your husband checks out other women? Some women have written in having this problem. Here’s one woman who says that whenever they’re in public...

Getting Ready for Sex in Marriage–and Not Being Offensively Attractive

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 3, 2019 | Sheila Snippets

How do you get ready for sex in marriage? Instead of doing a typical post today, I have a few quick things that I want to share. First, do we set too high expectations for the wedding night? Why is sex often so difficult early on for so many couples? I sat down with...

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