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The Math of Love and Respect

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 5, 2022 | Emotional Connection

Has anyone noticed that the math in Love & Respect for how many people the book applies to doesn’t add up? Joanna and her family are on their way down from the Arctic today to stay at my house for a week. They’re moving to Edmonton (it’s funny to...

The Podcast With the Woman Who Was Crying in the Shower Before Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 3, 2022 | Podcasts

Two weeks ago on the podcast we told you about a women who wrote in to Emerson Eggerichs of Love & Respect, saying she was crying in the shower before sex. She said that if she didn’t have sex with her husband, he would treat her very badly. His response?...

The Podcast Where Emerson Eggerichs Ignores Marital Rape

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 20, 2022 | Podcasts

I’m all fired up about the fact that people still consider Emerson Eggerichs an authority on marriage and sex. As most of you know, every year in this week in January we revisit the problems with the book Love & Respect, in the hopes that more and more...

Why Does Emerson Eggerichs Consider a Woman Crying in the Shower Before Sex “A Goldmine”?

by Connor Lindenbach | Jan 19, 2022 | Abuse

It’s Time to Revisit Love & Respect! It’s three years ago this week that we launched our first series looking at the problems with the book Love & Respect. Since then we’ve received over 1000 stories of how that book made people’s...

The Podcast Where YOU Can Speak Up, Too, and Become Part of the Change

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 13, 2022 | Podcasts, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Listen to the Podcast Here Browse all the Different Podcasts See the Last “Start Your Engines” (Men’s) Podcast Or, as always, you can watch on YouTube: Timeline of the Podcast 0:10 Exciting/Encouraging Things4:30 RQ: How can I speak up more at...

It’s Time to Hold Teachers Accountable for How They Treat the Sheep

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 22, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

In the evangelical church, too many of our books, resources and pastors spread messages that we now know are harmful–and we don’t have a way to stop it. Last year, we conducted a survey of 20,000 predominantly Christian women to see if any of the messages...