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What Does It Mean to Be Attracted to Your Husband?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 28, 2020 | Libido

What does it mean to be “attracted to your husband”? What does that actually feel like and look like? I’ve been talking about libido all month on the blog, and one of the problems when we’re talking about libido is trying to understand what we...

What if Low Libido Women Are Often Sexually Starved Women?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 25, 2020 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

Are libido differences really about libido–or are they often about orgasm? We’ve been talking about libido all month, and how to navigate libido differences. And as I’ve been repeatedly saying, our survey of 20,000 women (and others) have shown that...

Start Your Engines Podcast: On Frequency, Libido–and Being Sex Starved

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 24, 2020 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

It’s time for our men’s podcast–and this week we’re continuing our conversation about libido differences and looking at frequency. Keith and I focused on high drive husbands and high drive wives–and questions to ask if you’re...

10 Questions to Ask if Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 16, 2020 | Libido

Are the higher drive husband, and you’re wondering what to do because your wife rarely wants sex? We opened the week looking at frequency of sex in marriage. Usually marriages start off with couples having sex relatively frequently (like at least several times a...

A Word to Low Libido Spouses

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 15, 2020 | Libido

Many, if not most, of my readers are low-libido spouses. Sex just isn’t the biggest need you have, and quite frankly, most nights you could do without it. I get it. I’ve been the lower libido spouse for most of my marriage (it does go up and down, though!)...

Reader Question: What if My Husband Thinks I’m Boring in Bed?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 7, 2020 | Sexual Intimacy, Spicing Things Up

What do you do if your husband accuses you of being boring in bed–or when your husband thinks your sex life is boring? It’s our Sex Questions You Can’t Ask Your Pastor month, and I wanted to start with this one because it’s a great example of...