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Finally Reaching Orgasm Part 2: How One Reader Had a Breakthrough

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 13, 2018 | fun in bed

What’s the next step if you’ve learned everything you can about how to have great sex, but your body isn’t getting with the program? Yesterday I shared the first half of a post that a reader sent me (who wishes to remain anonymous) about her journey...

Retraining Your Brain to Fantasize about HIM — and No One Else!

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Jun 20, 2018 | libido, Sex

What do you do if you fantasize about romance novels or TV shows, but you can’t seem to fantasize about your husband? It’s Rebecca on the blog today. I wrote a post a while back talking about how sexual desire is not wrong in and of itself, and why sexual...

10 Ways Real Women Rev Their Sex Drives!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 19, 2018 | libido

A woman’s best tool for boosting her libido is her brain. So how can she use her brain to start looking forward to sex tonight? I asked a number of marriage and sex bloggers and authors to give me some good ideas. And I was looking for things that REAL people...

Women Are Not Like Slow Cookers

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 24, 2018 | libido

Have you ever heard the expression, “men are like microwaves, women are like slow cookers”? It’s often uttered at marriage conferences, as if it’s very profound. Here’s what it means: Men are like microwaves. They heat up quickly, and...

5 Things We Learn from the Shulamite Woman about Female Sexuality

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 22, 2018 | Bible, libido

Do you have a good, Biblical understanding of female sexuality? Rebekah Hargraves from Hargraves Home and Hearth sent me an email recently where she said, I got your book, “The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex” when I got engaged 5 years ago, and...

What if YOU’RE the Reason Your Sex Life Isn’t Great?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 21, 2018 | libido

I spent a lot of time on this blog helping couples figure out how to better communicate about sex and how to make sex great! But what if the issue isn’t actually a couple issue? What if there isn’t much the husband can do to improve your sex life? I know...