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Is It Okay to Withhold Sex in Marriage? Let’s Rethink Sexless Marriages

Is It Okay to Withhold Sex in Marriage? Let’s Rethink Sexless Marriages

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 15, 2019 | Libido

Is withholding sex in marriage okay? If you’re not a sexual person, or if you don’t think your spouse deserves sex, is it okay to cut them off from sex? A lot of people who are on this blog are desperate because their spouses have sex with them less than...
Does the Way We Talk about Women’s Libidos Make Women Have No Libido?

Does the Way We Talk about Women’s Libidos Make Women Have No Libido?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 11, 2019 | Libido

Personally, I think women’s libidos is largely in our heads. As in, what we think about libido determines our libido. So what is it that we’re told to think? Well, let’s do a comparison here. Decades ago, boys took a lot of math and did most of the...
Women Deserve Orgasm, Too: It’s Not Selfish for a Woman to Want to Orgasm During Intercourse

Women Deserve Orgasm, Too: It’s Not Selfish for a Woman to Want to Orgasm During Intercourse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 5, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

Do women deserve to orgasm when making love to their husbands? Is it reasonable to expect that when a couple is making love, both of them should receive pleasure? I normally do a top 10 post on Tuesdays, and I had something all ready to go, but there was a discussion...
Start Your Engines: How to Initiate Sex with Your Wife

Start Your Engines: How to Initiate Sex with Your Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 31, 2019 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

How do you figure out how to initiate sex with your wife–especially if she doesn’t seem that interested in sex? It’s podcast day on the blog today, and on the last Thursday of every month I run my podcasts specifically aimed at husbands (though I...
Why Your Husband Wants You to Read this Marriage Blog

Why Your Husband Wants You to Read this Marriage Blog

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 28, 2019 | Libido

This marriage blog was originally for women–married, Christian women, to be exact, although honestly anyone is welcome! It’s about advice for marriage from a Christian perspective, and I deal with everything quite openly–including sex. Most people...
The Stages of Sex: The Exhausted Years with Kids & Jobs

The Stages of Sex: The Exhausted Years with Kids & Jobs

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 9, 2019 | Libido, Parenting Small Children

What happens to sex when little kids come along? When you find yourselves busy and run off your feet? Every Wednesday in October we’re looking at the stages of sex in marriage. Last week we looked at the “figuring things out” stage, when sex is...
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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.

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