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A Romp through 10 Weird Things Victorians Believed about Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 14, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

We are continuing our romp through the ages with sex in Victorian times! Throughout the month of April I’ve wanted to look at how sex was seen at different periods in history, so that we could figure out how we got where we are now–and so that we could see...

PODCAST: Self-Fulfilling Prophecies and Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 18, 2021 | Libido, Podcasts

What if women’s low libido is partly a self-fulfilling prophecy? What happens when women are told: “If your husband is typical, he has a need you don’t have?”, as Love & Respect put it. Over and over again, in our evangelical resources,...

What Does It Mean to Be Attracted to Your Husband?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 28, 2020 | Libido

What does it mean to be “attracted to your husband”? What does that actually feel like and look like? I’ve been talking about libido all month on the blog, and one of the problems when we’re talking about libido is trying to understand what we...

What if Low Libido Women Are Often Sexually Starved Women?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 25, 2020 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

Are libido differences really about libido–or are they often about orgasm? We’ve been talking about libido all month, and how to navigate libido differences. And as I’ve been repeatedly saying, our survey of 20,000 women (and others) have shown that...

Start Your Engines Podcast: On Frequency, Libido–and Being Sex Starved

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 24, 2020 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

It’s time for our men’s podcast–and this week we’re continuing our conversation about libido differences and looking at frequency. Keith and I focused on high drive husbands and high drive wives–and questions to ask if you’re...

10 Questions to Ask if Your Wife Doesn’t Want Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 16, 2020 | Libido

Are the higher drive husband, and you’re wondering what to do because your wife rarely wants sex? We opened the week looking at frequency of sex in marriage. Usually marriages start off with couples having sex relatively frequently (like at least several times a...