How Do You Know if You’re in an Abusive Marriage?

by Sheila Gregoire | Aug 24, 2017 | abuse, healing, resolving conflict

How do you know if you’re being abused? One of the hardest parts of blogging is reading so many heartbreaking emails and comments that come in from people in truly destructive marriages. I find myself wondering, why do people treat each other this way? And even...

Reader Question: What Do I Do When My Husband Lies All the Time?

by Sheila Gregoire | Apr 3, 2017 | resolving conflict

What do you do when your husband lies all the time and never keeps his promises? Every Monday I like to put up a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and here’s one from a woman in a very difficult marriage. She writes: I have been married a year and...

What if You Divorced for the Wrong Reasons?

by Sheila Gregoire | Jul 19, 2016 | abuse, divorce

I hold both of these truths to be self-evident: sometimes women can be verbally and emotionally abused without other people understanding the extent of it, and need to get out of that marriage; and sometimes women claim that they are verbally and emotionally abused...

A Letter to the Woman with a Controlling Husband

by Sheila Gregoire | May 5, 2016 | abuse, resolving conflict

Are you married to a controlling husband? I wrote a big post recently about how too often our Christian culture promotes a version of church and marriage that makes women powerless–and that this inevitably leads to abuse. Not that EVERY woman will be abused, but...

Reader Question: I Think My Sister’s Husband is Controlling/Abusive

by Sheila Gregoire | Aug 4, 2014 | husbands and dads, Marriage

What do you do if you fear your sister is being abused (or your friend is being abused)? That’s the question I want to tackle today. Every Monday I take a stab at answering a reader question, and this one is a really sad one. A reader writes: My family and I are...

Wifey Wednesday: Submission Doesn’t Mean Lying Down and Taking It

by Sheila Gregoire | Aug 29, 2012 | abuse, husbands and dads, Marriage, resolving conflict

It’s Wednesday, the day when we talk marriage! I introduce a topic, and then you all can comment or link up your own marriage post at the bottom. Today I want to tackle a sensitive topic: Debi Pearl, wife abuse, and teaching about submission. Before we tackle...

About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.