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You Can’t Deal with a Porn Addiction Alone

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 8, 2017 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict, Sexual Intimacy

Recovering from a porn addiction really can’t be done alone. This post contains affiliate links. I’ve spent the last week planning out my blog posts for December and January, and I realized late yesterday that a lot of them are really heavy topics (maybe...

If My Husband Betrays Me, How Can I Trust the Memories?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 2, 2016 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

Can your husband be both good and bad at the same time? If he betrays you, does that mean the love wasn’t real? This week on To Love, Honor and Vacuum we’ve been looking at how to rebuild trust. We started with talking about how in Christian circles women...

How to Have Those Awkward Conversations with Your Husband

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 22, 2016 | Emotional Connection, Resolving Conflict

Ever have an awkward conversation that you just know you have to have with your husband–but you don’t know where to start? Today’s Wednesday, the day we always talk marriage! And today Samantha Hanni is joining us to talk about how she broached an...

Reader question: How Can I Make it Up to My Wife if I’ve Used Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 15, 2016 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

How does a guy make it up to his wife if he’s used porn? Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it. Here’s a sad story from a relative newlywed who confessed to his wife that he used porn. Now she’s devastated,...

Top 10 Ways to Help Your Husband End His Porn Addiction

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 29, 2015 | Pornography, Sex, Sexual Intimacy

Can a wife actually help her husband end a porn addiction? Porn is the number one problem that women write in to me about, so I thought I’d spend three days talking about different aspects of it. Thanks for all your comments yesterday on when to invite your...

Reader question: When Do I Invite My Husband Back into our Bed after His Porn Addiction?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 28, 2015 | Pornography, Sexual Intimacy

If your husband has been battling a porn addiction, when do you invite him back into your bed? Every Monday I like to put up a Reader Question and take a stab at answering it. Today I thought we’d do a 3-part series on battling porn in marriage (since...