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Top 10 Ways to Grow Your Sex Life in a Long Distance Marriage

by Sheila Gregoire | Apr 24, 2018 | fun in bed

How can you work on your sex life if you’re not together to practice? How do you work on your sex life long distance? I’ve had two women send me in questions like that recently. One woman writes: I just finished reading The Good Girl’s Guide....

Top 10 Signs You’re in a Legalistic Church

by Sheila Gregoire | Apr 3, 2018 | Faith

Are you in a legalistic church? How can you know? Yesterday I shared my experience with Teen Missions International back in the summer of 1986. It was very focused on authority and rules, and had very little grace. And it was life sapping. Jesus, on the other hand,...

Your Sex Pep Talk: 10 Ways to Look Forward to Sex!

by Sheila Gregoire | Mar 20, 2018 | libido

What messages do you tell yourself about sex? As my longtime readers know, I blog mostly about sex in marriage. And the questions I get tend to come from a negative starting point: how do I jumpstart my libido again after I’ve had a bunch of kids? How do I start...

Top 10 Ways New Moms Can Still Feel Like Wives Again

by Sheila Gregoire | Mar 6, 2018 | Parenting, romance

When you’re a new mom, how do you keep “mommy” from taking over your identity? We’re talking about loving your hubby this week at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, and one of the best ways to do that is not to add ONE MORE THING to your to do list,...

Top 10 Ways to Update Your Bedroom

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Feb 27, 2018 | housework

My bedroom is currently a mess. At the wedding on Saturday we used our TV room upstairs to shoot a lot of the pictures and video, so we had to clear everything out and it all got stuck on my bedroom floor. I really need to clean up. But I’m so tired! I hate it...

Top 10 Ways Husbands Can Improve Their Sex Lives

by Sheila Gregoire | Feb 13, 2018 | fun in bed, husbands and dads

Just in time for Valentine’s Day–here’s a post on 10 ways MEN can improve their sex lives. Last year I wrote a post on 10 ways women can make sex amazing for their husbands–and this Valentine’s Day I thought I’d do the opposite. And...