Top 10 Signs You’re in a Legalistic Church

Top 10 Signs You’re in a Legalistic Church

Are you in a legalistic church? How can you know? Yesterday I shared my experience with Teen Missions International back in the summer of 1986. It was very focused on authority and rules, and had very little grace. And it was life sapping. Jesus, on the other hand,...
Your Sex Pep Talk: 10 Ways to Look Forward to Sex!

Your Sex Pep Talk: 10 Ways to Look Forward to Sex!

What messages do you tell yourself about sex? As my longtime readers know, I blog mostly about sex in marriage. And the questions I get tend to come from a negative starting point: how do I jumpstart my libido again after I’ve had a bunch of kids? How do I start...
Top 10 Ways to Update Your Bedroom

Top 10 Ways to Update Your Bedroom

My bedroom is currently a mess. At the wedding on Saturday we used our TV room upstairs to shoot a lot of the pictures and video, so we had to clear everything out and it all got stuck on my bedroom floor. I really need to clean up. But I’m so tired! I hate it...