sexual fantasies | To Love, Honor and Vacuum

Should I Tell My Husband if I Fake Orgasm or Fantasize During Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 27, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

If you’re faking orgasm or fantasizing while you make love, should you confess to your husband? Wow. That’s a tough one! We’re getting to the end of our sex questions series, and I wanted to tackle one that I haven’t talked about in a few...

PODCAST EXTRAS: Sometimes a Vagina is Just a Vagina

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 9, 2020 | Podcasts, Spicing Things Up

Have more sex questions you can’t ask your pastor? It’s podcast day–and in the month of July I’m tackling all kinds of awkward sex questions! (And don’t forget my webinar TONIGHT at 9 pm EST! Your ticket to the webinar covers not just me...

When Porn Wrecks YOUR Sex Drive–Not Just Your Husband’s

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 7, 2020 | Pornography

This month, as we’re talking about pornography’s effects in marriage, let’s remember that men are not the only porn users. In fact, women make up an increasingly large portion of porn users, and women deal with a lot of the same effects of porn as...

When Your Husband Says You Don’t Act Like a Sexy Wife — My Readers Chime In!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 30, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

Is it ever OK for a husband to ask his wife to act like other women in order to be sexier?On Monday I asked what your thoughts were on a reader’s question about her husband wanting her to be more sexy, and you had a lot of great thoughts! So thank you for...

Have I Doomed My Sex Life By Rewiring My Brain with Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 21, 2018 | Pornography, Preparing for Marriage, Sex

If you’ve used porn, and you’ve rewired your brain to become aroused with fantasy rather than a person, is your sex life in marriage doomed? This week we’ve been talking about how to use your brain well to get you on the road to a great sex life in...

Retraining Your Brain to Fantasize about HIM — and No One Else!

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Jun 20, 2018 | Libido, Sex

What do you do if you fantasize about romance novels or TV shows, but you can’t seem to fantasize about your husband? It’s Rebecca on the blog today. I wrote a post a while back talking about how sexual desire is not wrong in and of itself, and why sexual...