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Finding a Great Bra that Suits Your Body–and the Occasion

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 21, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

Why do bras never seem to fit? My mom got back from her trip to Kenya last week, where she was busy sunup to sundown distributing donated items to abandoned children and teens, and the adult women who work with them. Each child is given a hand knit sweater, and there...

Reader Question: I Need Help Initiating Sex!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 27, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

Do you feel embarrassed when it comes to initiating sex? One of the most popular posts on this blog is 10 things to know about initiating sex. But quite often, I still get women emailing me saying, “I really want to do this! But it just doesn’t feel like...

The Menopause Pep Talk You Actually Need

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 6, 2018 | Healthy Living

With thanks to Estrogem for sponsoring this post.Hot flashes are awful.Even your hands sweat. Your wrists get all wet. The back of your neck gets clammy. You want to strip in public–which is generally not a good idea.You start to forget things. I’m...

Your Sex Pep Talk: 10 Ways to Look Forward to Sex!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 20, 2018 | Libido

What messages do you tell yourself about sex? As my longtime readers know, I blog mostly about sex in marriage. And the questions I get tend to come from a negative starting point: how do I jumpstart my libido again after I’ve had a bunch of kids? How do I start...

Wifey Wednesday: Is It So Bad if Your Kids Know You “Do It”?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 6, 2017 | Family

Will the world come to an end if your kids know you have sex? It’s Wednesday, the day when we always talk marriage here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum! And for the last few weeks my girls and I have been working on a really exciting project. We’ve been...

Can We Reclaim “Sexy” As Christians?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 26, 2017 | Making Sex Feel Good

When you hear the word “sexy”, does it have a negative connotation or a positive one to you? The world treats sex like it’s shallow, only physical, and thus rather degrading. And in our quest to reclaim sex as something which God created to be...