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What’s Holding You Back from Great Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 20, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

Often what we think about sex gets in the way of great sex. We’re in the middle of our orgasm series, and we’re less than one week out from releasing our Orgasm Course! I’m so excited (though I still have a ton to do!). One of the things that...

How to Tell Your Husband What You Want in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 11, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

How do you tell your husband what you want in bed? It’s a scary thing, isn’t it? You have to be vulnerable and actually share something intensely personal. Here’s a letter I received from a reader: Reader Question My husband and I can talk about...

The Stages of Sex Series: Figuring Things Out

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 2, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good, Series

In marriage, I think we go through several different stages of sex! And this month, for our October series, I’d like to go over those different stages, look at the fun parts of each one; look at the red flags that may pop up; and then look at how we can make...

Wifey Wednesday: What Boaty McBoatface Teaches Us about Marriage–and Sex!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 18, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

Sometimes we take ourselves a little bit too seriously. On Sunday morning, before church, I was perusing the news and drinking my cup of tea when I laughed out loud, spitting the contents of my cup all over my monitor. The news story came from Britain, and though what...

Top 10 Ways to Relax More in the Bedroom

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 6, 2015 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good, Sex, Sexual Intimacy

Do you find it hard to relax during sex? It’s that time–you and your husband are ready to get it on! But there’s a problem. While you like sex, you’re awfully shy. You pull the sheets up to your chin, turn the light out, and your heart starts...