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Is Porn the New Purity Culture?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 27, 2021 | Parenting Teenagers, Pornography

Is the next thing that’s going to damage sex in evangelical circles the way that we’re treating porn? Now, please understand: I think there is no excuse for watching porn. Porn is the biggest driver of sex trafficking. Even if the porn you’re...

With Porn, We Need More Than a Gospel of Sin Avoidance

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 8, 2021 | Pornography

Quitting porn needs to be something that changes you–not just something that allows you to avoid what you find really enticing. Last week on the podcast we were talking about how women are not methadone for their husbands’ sin addictions. They can’t...

The “You’re Not Methadone for His Porn Addiction” Podcast

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 4, 2021 | Podcasts, Pornography

You cannot defeat porn by becoming methadone for your husband’s porn addiction. And yet that’s exactly what Every Man’s Battle tells women to do! “Your wife can be a methadone-like fix when your temperature is rising.” “Once...

Can We Talk about How Porn and Emotional Immaturity Are Related?

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Nov 27, 2020 | Pornography

When we think of porn, we tend to think “sin”. (It’s Sheila introducing this post, but I’m going to put Rebecca as the author since most of these are her words below!) When it comes to porn, what if there’s more going on than just...

The Let’s Prevent Bad Marriages Podcast!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 3, 2020 | Podcasts, Preparing for Marriage

What if someone you love is about to make a bad marriage choice? Or what if your girlfriend/boyfriend isn’t treating your relationships or your issues seriously? We’re tackling two complicated reader questions on the podcast today! Listen in: Listen...

Motivation for Men to Fight Pornography

by Keith Gregoire | Apr 29, 2020 | Men's Corner, Pornography

Why should men join the fight against pornography? I’m excited to tell you today. It’s Keith (Sheila’s husband) on the blog today. This month the theme is about pornography and the terrible effects that it has on marriages and the people in those...