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Reader Question: Do I Have to Have Sex or Do Sexual Things if Sex Grosses Me Out?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 18, 2019 | Libido

What do you do if sex is very distasteful, and you’d rather not be sexual in your marriage at all? Last Friday I wrote a post about how withholding sex in your marriage is not a good idea (it’s better to deal with WHY you’re withholding sex). And...

Reader Question: How Do I Get My Husband to Quit Smoking?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 23, 2019 | Healthy Living

What do you do if your husband smokes, and you hate it, and you want him to quit? On Mondays I try to post reader questions and take a stab at answering them, and here’s one on a subject that a number of people have sent in. One woman writes: Reader Question My...

Should This Wife Have to Be Sexier? I’m Asking YOU!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 26, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

I need your help to figure out how to help this woman who wants to be sexier. I can’t do it myself, because Saturday, I did this: I was cutting an onion to make dinner when Connor and Rebecca came back to town for the weekend and after the first slice...

Parenting Reader Questions: I Found My Daughter’s Sex Toy, My Husband Co-Sleeps with our Daughter, and More!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 19, 2019 | Parenting Small Children, Parenting Teenagers

What do you do if you found your daughter’s sex toy, or your son says something highly offensive at school? I have such a huge backlog of reader questions that I’ve decided to take a few Mondays this summer when I normally do a deep-dive into one question...

Reader Question: My Husband is a Racist

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 1, 2019 | Resolving Conflict

What do you do if your husband is a racist, and his beliefs cause rifts in your family?I’ve got a bit of a heavy reader question today!It’s Canada Day here, but I’m going to publish a post today and then take Thursday & Friday off for the July 4...

Sex Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 25, 2019 | Sex

Here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum we get a LOT of reader questions–especially about sex!We can’t answer anything personally, but Tammy (who goes through them all) does set aside ones that are particularly interesting, crop up a lot, or I haven’t...