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PODCAST: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea about Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 17, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts, Pornography

Is lust really every man’s battle? And how do we handle different libidos? It’s launch week for The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, and I wanted to save some of our most important findings from our...

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: How to Feel Confident When You’re Married to a Porn User

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 18, 2021 | Pornography

If you’ve been constantly betrayed in your marriage, how can you ever have sexual confidence again? We’re in a sexual confidence series for October and November, where we’ve been talking about what sexual confidence looks like–and how to...

4 Things You Must Do if Your Husband Uses Porn

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 14, 2020 | Bare Marriage, Pornography

What should you do if your husband watches porn? This month our theme is pornography use–how to understand the effects of porn; how to defeat porn and recover from porn; how to help the future generation not get hooked. We’ve also already talked about how...

How One Man Explains the Temptation towards Porn–and How to Fight It

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 8, 2020 | Pornography

How do men who have recovered from a porn addiction see that porn addiction in retrospect? As I unpack from my vacation, I’m happy to have a post to share with you this week from Hugh Houston, who has written the book Jesus is Better than Porn. I know so many...

PODCAST: Porn and Coronavirus–How Scared Should We Be?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 2, 2020 | Podcasts, Pornography

What do porn and coronavirus have in common? We hate them both, and we want them to stop! My series on the blog in April will be on porn, and so to launch that series, I wanted to give a big picture perspective on the real problem with porn (hint: it may not be...

How One Woman Became a Warrior Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 10, 2020 | Resolving Conflict, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Maybe being a wife is about fighting FOR your husband, not just being nice to your husband. I want to share a story that was shared on this blog this week, but before I do that, I want to tell you about a conversation my husband Keith and I had over Christmas. I...