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Are You a Safe Place for Your Husband When He Falls?

Are You a Safe Place for Your Husband When He Falls?

by Sheila Gregoire | Aug 25, 2016 | anger, communication, pornography, resolving conflict

Can your husband admit his faults to you? Can he come to you with his struggles? One of the best things about marriage is that you have each other’s backs. Two are better than one, because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls...

Reader Question: I Just Found Porn on My Husband’s Phone. Now What?

Reader Question: I Just Found Porn on My Husband’s Phone. Now What?

by Sheila Gregoire | Jul 11, 2016 | pornography

What do you do if you find out that your husband uses porn? One of the most recent questions I get from readers is about husbands using porn. Here’s a question that recently came through: I have recently discovered that my husband looks at pornographic websites...

Reader question: How Can I Make it Up to My Wife if I’ve Used Porn?

Reader question: How Can I Make it Up to My Wife if I’ve Used Porn?

by Sheila Gregoire | Feb 15, 2016 | pornography, resolving conflict

How does a guy make it up to his wife if he’s used porn? Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it. Here’s a sad story from a relative newlywed who confessed to his wife that he used porn. Now she’s devastated,...

Wifey Wednesday: Can You Move Past It? The Power of Forgiveness

Wifey Wednesday: Can You Move Past It? The Power of Forgiveness

by Sheila Gregoire | Jan 20, 2016 | divorce, healing, pornography, resolving conflict

Can you move past it? Can you get over and forgive something your husband did? Every Wednesday we talk marriage! And today I want to tackle how to get past a major hurt in your marriage. Deciding to Move Past the Hurt Every week I get dozens of emails from women whose...

Wifey Wednesday: Rewiring Your Brain after a Porn Addiction

Wifey Wednesday: Rewiring Your Brain after a Porn Addiction

by Sheila Gregoire | May 20, 2015 | healing, intimacy, pornography

Is it possible to rewire your brain–to get back to normal sexual arousal–after a porn addiction? It’s Wednesday, the day when we always talk marriage! I introduce a topic, and then you all can link up your own marriage posts in the link below. Today...

The Trauma of Your Husband’s Porn Use: 8 Steps to Dealing with It

The Trauma of Your Husband’s Porn Use: 8 Steps to Dealing with It

by Sheila Gregoire | Oct 28, 2014 | healing, pornography

The most common email I receive and comment I get on this blog is about pornography. So many of my readers are struggling with what to do if their husband watches porn. I’ve asked several experts to write some guest posts for me over the next few days to help us...

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