How Betrayal Trauma Therapy Can Help Wives of Porn Addicts

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 23, 2019 | Pornography, Sex

When you catch your husband using porn, what kind of therapy is most likely to help?I know so many people wind up at this blog because of trauma in their marriages, especially a husband’s porn use (and it’s usually the husband, although many women struggle...

Should You Marry Someone Who Uses Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 28, 2019 | Marriage, Pornography

What should you do if your fiance watches porn? Quite frankly, Porn destroys marriage. It rewires the brain so that what becomes arousing is an image, rather than a person. And it distorts people’s sexuality, so that we concentrate solely on the physical aspects...

How One Man Confessed His Porn Addiction to His Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 11, 2018 | Pornography

We talk a lot about what to do when your husband struggles with porn here on the site. Today, however, we get to hear from Hugh Huston, author of Jesus is Better than Porn, who is himself a husband who struggled with porn for 30 years. And when he decided enough was...

Reader Question: I Just Found Porn on My Husband’s Phone. Now What?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 11, 2016 | Pornography

What do you do if you find out that your husband uses porn? One of the most recent questions I get from readers is about husbands using porn. Here’s a question that recently came through: I have recently discovered that my husband looks at...

Reader question: How Can I Make it Up to My Wife if I’ve Used Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 15, 2016 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

How does a guy make it up to his wife if he’s used porn? Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it. Here’s a sad story from a relative newlywed who confessed to his wife that he used porn. Now she’s devastated,...

Wifey Wednesday: Can You Move Past It? The Power of Forgiveness

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 20, 2016 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict, Tough Marriage Situations

Can you move past it? Can you get over and forgive something your husband did? Every Wednesday we talk marriage! And today I want to tackle how to get past a major hurt in your marriage. Deciding to Move Past the Hurt Every week I get dozens of emails from women whose...

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