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How One Man Explains the Temptation towards Porn–and How to Fight It

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 8, 2020 | Pornography

How do men who have recovered from a porn addiction see that porn addiction in retrospect? As I unpack from my vacation, I’m happy to have a post to share with you this week from Hugh Houston, who has written the book Jesus is Better than Porn. I know so many...

How Porn Use Before Marriage Affects Marriage Now

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2019 | Parenting Teenagers, Pornography

If a guy (or a teenage girl) has grown up using porn, how is that going to affect marriage? I’m going to take a bit of a time-out from Christmas posts today to talk about something that’s come up lately that I think is important. If you’ve been...

Wives: You Are Not to Blame for Your Husband’s Porn Addiction

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 9, 2019 | Pornography

Are wives to blame if their husbands use pornography? One of the things we’ve been talking about on the blog lately is that you are not to blame if your spouse has an affair. You may have contributed to serious marriage problems. You may even have been the...

Should You Marry Someone Who Uses Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 28, 2019 | Marriage, Pornography

What should you do if your fiance watches porn? Quite frankly, Porn destroys marriage. It rewires the brain so that what becomes arousing is an image, rather than a person. And it distorts people’s sexuality, so that we concentrate solely on the physical aspects...

On Hugh Hefner’s Death–Terrible Legacy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 29, 2017 | Pornography

Some people are not worth mourning. Because of Hugh Hefner’s influence on our pornographic culture, I’d put him in that category. We politely say RIP about pretty much everyone who dies, but that’s not the biblical view. Certainly we’re to pray...

Why Calling Porn Use An Addiction Can Sometimes Make It Worse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 8, 2017 | Pornography

What does it matter if we call porn use an “addiction” or a “habit”? Yesterday and today I’ve had Leah Grey talking about the misunderstandings we have about porn addiction in marriage. Yesterday she asked the question what if what...