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Which Internet Filter Should You Use to Protect Your Kids from Porn? Qostodio vs. Covenant Eyes

by Joanna Sawatsky | Oct 25, 2019 | Parenting Small Children, Parenting Teenagers, Pornography

Porn is not harmless. Social media can be a minefield. And the internet can suck productive time away and cause us to miss out on important parts of our lives. That’s why I believe parents have to get a handle on their kids’ internet usage, and why I...

Confessions of a Female Porn Addict

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 12, 2019 | Pornography

Porn addictions do not discriminate. For the last few weeks, I have been writing about how we need to change the way we talk about sex in church; sex is not just for men, but for women as well. However, the same applies to porn. It is not just men who are getting...

10 Times You’re Allowed to Say No to Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 12, 2019 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

You’re allowed to say no to sex. Unfortunately that can be a radical thing to say in some church circles, and I’ve been writing lately about God created sex to be a mutual experience, not just a one-sided experience. Women’s pleasure matters, too,...

Porn and Anger: How Porn Use Stunts Emotional Growth

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 4, 2019 | Pornography

Porn and anger go together, because porn doesn’t just affect someone’s sex drive. Porn affects personality, too.Last weekend I was speaking in Edmonton at the Breakforth conference on a cold, dark, freezing rain Sunday morning. The topic was “how...

How One Man Confessed His Porn Addiction to His Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 11, 2018 | Pornography

We talk a lot about what to do when your husband struggles with porn here on the site. Today, however, we get to hear from Hugh Huston, author of Jesus is Better than Porn, who is himself a husband who struggled with porn for 30 years. And when he decided enough was...

Why Calling Porn Use An Addiction Can Sometimes Make It Worse

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 8, 2017 | Pornography

What does it matter if we call porn use an “addiction” or a “habit”? Yesterday and today I’ve had Leah Grey talking about the misunderstandings we have about porn addiction in marriage. Yesterday she asked the question what if what...