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How Many Christian Men Are Sexually Safe Husbands?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 21, 2022 | Men's Corner, Pornography

How many Christian husbands see sex in a healthy way? We know that sexual sin, and porn use, and objectification of women are rampant. But it’s not everywhere. So how many guys aren’t affected by this? In February and March I’m posting several...

PODCAST: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea about Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 17, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts, Pornography

Is lust really every man’s battle? And how do we handle different libidos? It’s launch week for The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, and I wanted to save some of our most important findings from our...

Let’s See the Pornographic Style of Relating in Action

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 22, 2021 | Pornography

What do you do when you’re told that it’s your Christian duty to act like porn for your husband? Many of you have really enjoyed hearing Andrew Bauman on the Bare Marriage podcast. He’s the co-founder and co-director of the Christian Counseling...

Top 10 Marriage and Sex Red Flags You Must Never Ignore

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 28, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy

Marriage red flags–all of us have marriage issues, but how do you know if an issue crosses the line into dangerously weird territory? I receive many emails from women in crisis, and since we’re talking about doing marriage on hard mode all month, I thought...

Don’t Tell Women to Have Sex So He Won’t Watch Porn

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 9, 2021 | Pornography

Telling a woman that the way she stops her husband from watching porn is to have sex with him is toxic. I’m getting ready to pack up our RV and leave the campground. It’s been a great few weeks relaxing, knitting, and processing, and I’m grateful....

How to Reclaim Sex and Not Make it Ugly

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 29, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy

Sometimes, the way we talk about the purpose of sex makes it clear that we don’t understand the beauty of sex at all. And that needs to stop! Just a quick post today (or what I hope will be a quick post) with a comment about a news story in the Christian world...