Want Great Sex? Then You Have to Let Go of Control!

by Sheila Gregoire | Jul 10, 2017 | intimacy, libido

If you want great sex, then you simply have to let yourself be vulnerable. It’s the start of our second week of the Sizzling Summer Sex Series, and last week one of the big things I was addressing was how to find real passion. The answer? We need vulnerability....

Why Is There No Passion in Our Marriage? The Missing Ingredient!

by Sheila Gregoire | Jul 7, 2017 | libido, Sex

Are you trying desperately to have a great sex life, but it only leaves you feeling even more distant? It’s Day 5 of our Sizzling Summer Sex Series! And today I want to talk about the Big Missing Ingredient that robs so much of us of sexual pleasure. I’ve...

What if You Were Never Meant to Settle for Safe?

by Sheila Gregoire | Apr 28, 2017 | libido

How do you explain colour to a colour blind person? You can’t do it really well, can you? I have a “nephew” (he’s an adopted nephew, really) who always believed his favourite colour was red. Then he was tested for colour blindedness and it...

Enthusiastic Sex = Greater Intimacy

by Sheila Gregoire | Feb 15, 2017 | libido

When it comes to sex, do you focus on quantity, rather than quality? Or do you believe that enthusiastic sex matters? Every Wednesday for the last 9 years (oh, my goodness! That’s like 20% of my life!) I’ve been talking about marriage here at this blog....

How Freedom and Passion for God Go Together–Even in the Bedroom

by Sheila Gregoire | Nov 11, 2016 | fun in bed, intimacy, libido

Why is it that passion in the bedroom is so hard to experience for so many Christian women? We’ve been talking this week about how God made sex to be amazing (with a slight detour for my post-election post!), and we started off the week looking at how sacred sex...

Reader Question: Why Do You Focus So Much on “Steamy” Sex?

by Sheila Gregoire | Nov 7, 2016 | fun in bed, intimacy

Is sacred sex the opposite of steamy sex? This week on To Love, Honor and Vacuum we’re going to be looking at how God made sex to be awesome (this is going to be a fun week!). I’m going to start it off a little differently, though. Every Monday I like to...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.