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Can We Revisit Masturbation in Marriage?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 6, 2019 | Libido, Sexual Intimacy

I’ve talked a lot about masturbation in marriage on this blog before. I’ve tended to come down pretty hard on masturbation (I really hope there’s not some ugly double entendre there that I’m not seeing) in the past when it’s done for...

What Women Need to Know about Erections

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 21, 2019 | Podcasts, Pornography

To tell you the truth, I don’t know a whole lot about erections. Mostly because I’ve never had one. But I get a LOT of questions about them. And I’m really behind on all my reader questions, so I thought today I’d invite my husband Keith onto...

PODCAST: Aiming for Arousal, Questions about Masturbation, and More!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 13, 2019 | Podcasts, Sex

It’s time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And consider this podcast...

What Do You Do if Your Young Child Masturbates?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 25, 2018 | Parenting Teenagers

Catching your child touching himself or herself when they’re really young can be a difficult one for parents. And it’s something that we often freak out about. What if they’re growing into sex addicts? I get so many questions about how to handle a...

What One Man Learned By Quitting Masturbation for a Year

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 18, 2018 | Sex

Can you quit masturbating? That’s what one of my readers challenged himself to do. He knew it was hurting his marriage. He knew it was hurting his sex life. And he knew it had to stop. I have some great men who read this blog, too, because they’re looking...

Top 10 Ways to Grow Your Sex Life in a Long Distance Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 24, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

How can you work on your sex life if you’re not together to practice? How do you work on your sex life long distance? I’ve had two women send me in questions like that recently. One woman writes: I just finished reading The Good Girl’s Guide....