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Start Your Engines: Your Wife’s Not Broken!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 30, 2020 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

What happens when a couple gets married, and sex doesn’t work well for her? Well, I’ll tell you what often happens. The couple assumes that she doesn’t like sex. That she doesn’t enjoy sex. That she’s just not sexual. And she feels...

10 Quick Newlywed Sex Questions You Can’t Ask Your Pastor

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 13, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good, Preparing for Marriage

Engaged women and newlyweds often have a lot of questions about sex! What will it feel like? Will it hurt? How do we make it feel good? This month, in the Mondays in July, we’re talking about sex questions you can’t ask your pastor (and in our podcasts,...

If Sex Feels Terrible…How Can You Look Forward to It?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 10, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

So sex feels terrible. You feel nothing–or maybe even some pain. So how do you look forward to it? That’s the question that one of our frequent commenters was asking this week, and I feel for her, because I’ve been in her situation. She’s a...

PODCAST Extras: Arousal–The Missing Piece

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 14, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good, Podcasts, Preparing for Marriage

When women can’t reach orgasm or don’t receive a lot of pleasure from sex, a lot of times it’s because they’ve never figured out the arousal piece. We’ve been talking on the blog lately about that arousal piece, and what can hinder it,...

How to Tell Your Husband What You Want in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 11, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

How do you tell your husband what you want in bed? It’s a scary thing, isn’t it? You have to be vulnerable and actually share something intensely personal. Here’s a letter I received from a reader: Reader Question My husband and I can talk about...

10 Things to Know About Postpartum Sex

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Feb 17, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

Postpartum sex can be a potential minefield of fears, insecurities, and frustrations. But does it have to be? Rebecca here on the blog today! My baby boy came into this world with a bang–and by “with a bang” I mean I pushed him out in 5 contractions...