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Men and Women Are Different When it Comes to Sex–but Thankfully It’s Not Because of Our Brains

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 4, 2021 | Libido

Last week we were talking about how neuroscience does NOT say that men and women are different species when it comes to sex. Rebecca and Connor talked on the Bare Marriage podcast last week about how we’ve been told by many evangelical authors that neuroscience...

How to Tell if Christian Authors Are Using Junk Science about Gender Differences

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 1, 2021 | Libido

How do you know if a book is using junk science to prove a point? I thought I’d combine last week’s podcast on a DIY test to see if Christian books are harmful or helpful and this week’s podcast on the problems with the way that far too many...

“The Church Needs a New Sex Talk”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 14, 2021 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

“The church cannot continue to treat sexual desires as a male-only issue.” That’s in the conclusion of a big article in Relevant Magazine about The Great Sex Rescue. The three of us–Rebecca, Joanna and me–were all interviewed for the...

How Has Evangelical Teaching about Sex Contributed to Horrific News Stories?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 19, 2021 | Pornography

The shootings in Atlanta this week are all too tragic–but I believe they are also a logical extension to how evangelicalism too often talks about sex, porn, and women. First, before I delve into this too much, these shootings were racially motivated. He killed...

12 Ways to Help Christian Men Overcome Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 1, 2021 | Pornography

For twenty years now Christians have been inundated with news about “every man’s battle” and how every man struggles with lust. But what if our approach is part of the problem? I believe that because we talk about how all men struggle with lust,...

Lust Isn’t Every Man’s Battle–And We’ve Got the Numbers! A Podcast

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 28, 2021 | Podcasts, Pornography

What if we actually ask men about lust–and it turns out that the majority don’t struggle with it? That’s the focus of our podcast today–what does the “all men struggle with lust” message do to us? Before we get started, a quick...