Is “Bouncing Your Eyes” So You Don’t Lust Respectful to Women?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 25, 2020 | Pornography

Is the antidote to lust that men learn the “bouncing your eyes” technique, as advocated in Every Man’s Battle? We’ve been talking about new ways to think about lust this week, with Keith’s post yesterday (and our podcast coming up...

Can We Respect Women, Please? A New Look at the Church’s View on Lust

by Keith Gregoire | Mar 24, 2020 | Men's Corner, Pornography, Theology of Marriage and Sex

What if the real reason that lust is bad really isn’t about sex? i’ve talked about lust before on the blog–with the question “is lust really every man’s battle”? I’ve written that noticing is not lusting. But my husband Keith...

Can We Revisit Masturbation in Marriage?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 6, 2019 | Libido, Sexual Intimacy

I’ve talked a lot about masturbation in marriage on this blog before. I’ve tended to come down pretty hard on masturbation (I really hope there’s not some ugly double entendre there that I’m not seeing) in the past when it’s done for...

Are You Inadvertently Raising Your Sons to Have Problems with Lust?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 25, 2019 | Parenting Teenagers

Every time, without fail, when I try to talk about men’s struggles with lust the conversation turns to how women, and especially teenage girls, dress. Basically it goes something like this: Well, of course men shouldn’t lust, but girls should also watch...

What Women Need to Know about Erections

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 21, 2019 | Podcasts, Pornography

To tell you the truth, I don’t know a whole lot about erections. Mostly because I’ve never had one. But I get a LOT of questions about them. And I’m really behind on all my reader questions, so I thought today I’d invite my husband Keith onto...

You Can’t Recover from Porn by Running Away from Women

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 20, 2019 | Pornography

If a man is trying to recover from a porn addiction, does he need to detoxify by making sure that he never sees any woman who could be alluring? One of the biggest searches that land people on this blog is for the effects of porn on the brain, and so I have a lot of...

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