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On Modesty: We Shouldn’t Sacrifice Teen Girls’ Well-Being for Adult Men’s Comfort

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 13, 2022 | Parenting Teenagers

A basic principle in the Old Testament is actually quite a simple one: People of God don’t sacrifice children. Read through the prophets, and you’ll hear the judgment against nations that sacrifice their kids to Molech, or make children “walk through...

PODCAST: How Many Christian Men Are Safe? Plus What Masculinity Is!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 31, 2022 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

It’s time to talk to the guys today–and look at what masculinity really is! On the last Thursday of every month I like to aim the podcasts more at men (though of course women can get a lot of them too!). And today we tackled safe masculinity, or what true...

Who is Safer to Date: Christian Men or Secular Men?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 22, 2022 | Preparing for Marriage

Do you feel safer in Christian spaces or non-Christian ones? That can be a hard one to answer because there are so many variables, but yesterday I set off a firestorm with my post that only 33.7% of married, evangelical men meet our four criteria for being sexually...

PODCAST: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea about Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 17, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts, Pornography

Is lust really every man’s battle? And how do we handle different libidos? It’s launch week for The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, and I wanted to save some of our most important findings from our...

The Post That Will Help Men Defeat Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 16, 2022 | Men's Corner, Pornography

Does lust have to be every man’s battle? The Every Man’s Battle book series has sold 4,000,000 copies, and they’ve certainly spread the idea that lust is, indeed, what every man struggles with. And people do believe it in large numbers. 62% of women...

PODCAST: On Birth Control and Lust Control, featuring Patrick Weaver

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 17, 2022 | Podcasts

It’s time for another educational podcast–this time on contraception! Plus we talk with Patrick Weaver about the recent #DearBrian dust-up, where that pastor from Utah told women to cover up and not show skin on Instagram, like pictures with their newborn...