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4 Reasons You May Feel Sexually Frustrated–Even When You’re Having Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 21, 2020 | Libido

Do you feel really alone when your spouse rejects you sexually? We’re talking about libido all month on the blog, and I opened by talking about how to find contentment even if you’re the higher drive spouse and not getting as much sex as you...

8 Questions to Ask if Your Husband Doesn’t Want Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 18, 2020 | Libido

What do you do if your husband rarely wants to make love? He can go forever without initiating, and you feel lonely and rejected? We’ve been talking this week about what constitutes a healthy frequency of sex in marriage, and what to do if sex is far less...

PODCAST: What if Libido Differences and Frequency Aren’t the Real Issues?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 17, 2020 | Libido, Podcasts

We talk about frequency issues and libido issues in marriage as if they’re the problem to be solved. But what if they’re more symptoms of other problems? Every now and then we record a podcast that I think is truly important. I mean, I like them all, but...

A Word to Low Libido Spouses

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 15, 2020 | Libido

Many, if not most, of my readers are low-libido spouses. Sex just isn’t the biggest need you have, and quite frankly, most nights you could do without it. I get it. I’ve been the lower libido spouse for most of my marriage (it does go up and down, though!)...

Should Doing Housework Be Considered Foreplay?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 9, 2020 | Homemaking, Libido

Have you all heard “sex begins in the kitchen”–not meaning that we should do interesting things with whipping cream, but that doing the dishes is a good method to get women to warm up? I hear this a lot–“Guys, if you want her to have sex...

9 Tips for Sexually Frustrated Wives

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Nov 19, 2019 | Libido, Sex

What do you do when you’re feeling sexually frustrated in your marriage? A lot of advice for sexual frustration tends to be for singles, because sex is entirely off the table. But what about when you’re married, when sex IS an option, but your spouse just...