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SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: 4 Tips for Building Sexual Confidence as the Higher Drive Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 1, 2021 | Libido

I’ve often said that the higher drive wife carries a lot of burdens that other permutations of libido do not. It can be very difficult to be a husband married to a woman who doesn’t want sex, but at least that’s culturally expected. As a woman, we...

Communicating Your Perspective When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested in Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 20, 2021 | Libido

What do you do if your spouse isn’t interested in sex? Often when I write about how to spice things up in the bedroom, or how to make sex more fun, the emails start to arrive: What do I do if my husband doesn’t want to have sex? What do I do if my wife...

Why Doesn’t My Husband Want to Make Love

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 19, 2021 | Libido

What do you do if your husband doesn’t want to make love? That’s such a lonely place to be in a marriage–but it’s far more common than we might normally think. When we were conducting the research for our book The Great Sex Rescue, we asked...

Why Believing All Men Are Sex Machines Leads to So Much Rejection among Women

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 15, 2021 | Libido

If we believe that men are insatiable sex machines who will want and need sex everyday, what happens when we marry and wives find their husbands are just human? This week, on our Bare Marriage podcast, we talked with Rachel Joy Welcher about her book Talking Back to...

Do You Ever Feel Rejected When Your Husband Seems to Prefer Sleep to Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 13, 2021 | Libido

I wonder: since we’ve grown up believing so much that men want sex all the time, then when he doesn’t initiate sex, do women feel rejected? I’m not talking about the rejection that higher drive wives feel (that’s real, and that’s...

Start Your Engines Podcast: On Frequency, Libido–and Being Sex Starved

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 24, 2020 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

It’s time for our men’s podcast–and this week we’re continuing our conversation about libido differences and looking at frequency. Keith and I focused on high drive husbands and high drive wives–and questions to ask if you’re...