Reader Question: My Husband Wakes me Up for Sex

by Emily Murchison | Oct 21, 2019 | Abuse, Libido, Theology of Marriage and Sex

If your husband wakes you up for sex, or starts sex with you when you’re asleep, is that okay? A reader sent me a link to a post that The Transformed Wife did recently where she was telling a woman that being woken up for sex when she didn’t want to be is...

Sex Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 25, 2019 | Sex

Here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum we get a LOT of reader questions–especially about sex!We can’t answer anything personally, but Tammy (who goes through them all) does set aside ones that are particularly interesting, crop up a lot, or I haven’t...

10 Ways Men Can Initiate Sex with Their Wives (Without Turning Her Off!)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 30, 2018 | Libido, Men's Corner

A lot of guys would love to have more sex with their wives. But how do they initiate sex without sending her heading in the other direction? Because when a guy comes on too strong when that’s the last thing she’s thinking, it can often backfire. A guy who...

Scheduling Sex: Good Idea or Romance Killer?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 27, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

Is it a cop out to schedule sex? When I give my Girl Talk events at churches, and get to the Q&A, this is always something I recommend when a couple has major libido differences. But I often get people thinking I’m a little bit nuts, because scheduling sex...

Reader Question: I Need Help Initiating Sex!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 27, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

Do you feel embarrassed when it comes to initiating sex? One of the most popular posts on this blog is 10 things to know about initiating sex. But quite often, I still get women emailing me saying, “I really want to do this! But it just doesn’t feel like...

Does Everything Really Come Down to Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 10, 2018 | Libido, Sex

Is sex really as big of a deal as everyone makes it out to be? We talk about sex a lot on this blog, and without fail we will get at least one comment that says: I just don’t understand the hype around sex! Why is it such a huge deal to guys? And it occurs to me...

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