The Terrible, Awful Downward Spiral of Libido Differences

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 31, 2020 | Libido

Sometimes libido differences can send you on a negative spiral, where both of you are constantly feeling rejected. In about 7 weeks (yikes!) our manuscript for The Great Sex Rescue is due in at the publishers, so I’m frantically writing. I would have been doing...

Start Your Engines: How to Initiate Sex with Your Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 31, 2019 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

How do you figure out how to initiate sex with your wife–especially if she doesn’t seem that interested in sex? It’s podcast day on the blog today, and on the last Thursday of every month I run my podcasts specifically aimed at husbands (though I...

Reader Question: My Husband Wakes me Up for Sex

by Emily Murchison | Oct 21, 2019 | Abuse, Libido, Theology of Marriage and Sex

If your husband wakes you up for sex, or starts sex with you when you’re asleep, is that okay? A reader sent me a link to a post that The Transformed Wife did recently where she was telling a woman that being woken up for sex when she didn’t want to be is...

Sex Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 25, 2019 | Sex

Here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum we get a LOT of reader questions–especially about sex!We can’t answer anything personally, but Tammy (who goes through them all) does set aside ones that are particularly interesting, crop up a lot, or I haven’t...

10 Ways Men Can Initiate Sex with Their Wives (Without Turning Her Off!)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 30, 2018 | Libido, Men's Corner

A lot of guys would love to have more sex with their wives. But how do they initiate sex without sending her heading in the other direction? Because when a guy comes on too strong when that’s the last thing she’s thinking, it can often backfire. A guy who...

Scheduling Sex: Good Idea or Romance Killer?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 27, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

Is it a cop out to schedule sex? When I give my Girl Talk events at churches, and get to the Q&A, this is always something I recommend when a couple has major libido differences. But I often get people thinking I’m a little bit nuts, because scheduling sex...

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