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10 Reasons Why Rushing Forgiveness Ruins Intimacy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 6, 2019 | Theology of Marriage and Sex, Tough Marriage Situations

When you discover that your husband is cheating on you, or using pornography, should you forgive right away and work on rebuilding the marriage? Or if you discover that your wife is cheating on you, should you put that aside for the sake of the marriage and work on...

Are You to Blame if Your Spouse Cheats on You?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 26, 2019 | Theology of Marriage and Sex, Tough Marriage Situations

If your husband has an affair, are you partially to blame? That’s been something I’ve been debating heatedly on Facebook and Twitter this week, because I saw this Facebook status by Focus on the Family: I found this rather disturbing, and posted it both on...

Reader Question: Do I Tell if I Find Out My Friend Had an Affair?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 12, 2017 | Marriage, Sex

Do you tell on a friend if you find out she had an affair? Every Monday I like to post a reader question, and today’s is a biggie: so a friend had an affair, and it’s gotten really complicated. Do you tell her family? I’m honestly not sure how to...

Reader Question: My Daughter’s in Love with a Married Man

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 30, 2017 | Family

What do you do when someone you love in turn is in love with a married man? When someone you love is making the biggest mistake of her life? Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it. Unfortunately, this question isn’t as rare...

Reader Question: I Caught My Husband Texting Another Woman

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 17, 2014 | Marriage, Sexual Intimacy, Tough Marriage Situations

A woman writes: “my husband is texting another woman. What do I do?” Every Monday I try to answer a Reader Question. Sometimes the questions I get are really hard ones, and today’s is an example. I know many of you have caught your husband on...

How Do I Forgive My Husband–Especially if He’s Not Truly Sorry?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 2, 2013 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

What does it mean to forgive your husband? I get the emails or comments on this blog all the time: “My husband confessed he uses porn, and I can’t get past it. How do I forgive him?” Or “my wife had an affair and I can’t see my way...