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The ORGASM Series: 10 Things Husbands Who Are Great Lovers Do

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 19, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good, Men's Corner

What do husbands who care about their wife’s pleasure and their wife’s orgasm actually do? We’re in the middle of our orgasm series, culminating in the release of our Orgasm Course next Monday (Yay!). Katie’s frantically editing the last of the...

Why Are So Many Sex Problems in Marriage So Hard to Solve?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 20, 2020 | Sexual Intimacy

When people write in with sex problems, one of the hardest things is that the problem is often not just one thing. It would be wonderful if, when people have problems with sex, it were one simple thing, like: “Our relationship is great and everything is...

If Sex Feels Terrible…How Can You Look Forward to It?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 10, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

So sex feels terrible. You feel nothing–or maybe even some pain. So how do you look forward to it? That’s the question that one of our frequent commenters was asking this week, and I feel for her, because I’ve been in her situation. She’s a...

How to Tell Your Husband What You Want in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 11, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

How do you tell your husband what you want in bed? It’s a scary thing, isn’t it? You have to be vulnerable and actually share something intensely personal. Here’s a letter I received from a reader: Reader Question My husband and I can talk about...

How Do You Grieve the Honeymoon Years You Never Had?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 7, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

What if the honeymoon years passed you by, and sex was never good? How do you come to terms with the fact that you’ve missed out on something you can never get back? Over the month of October I’m going to be talking about the different stages of sex in...

Top 10 Things Female Bloggers Think Pastors are Missing about Marriage & Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 13, 2019 | Sex, Theology of Marriage and Sex

Women have a unique perspective on marriage and sex–because we have unique experiences! Yet sometimes women are missing from the conversation, because most pastors and big name marriage authors are male. So I invited six of the best female marriage & sex...