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Reader Question: My Husband Doesn’t Think our Sex Life is Good Enough!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 8, 2021 | Spicing Things Up

What do you do when your husband thinks you have a bad sex life? Recently we were talking about 10 marriage and sex red flags–signs that there may be something wrong with your marriage. Here’s a really messy question from a woman whose husband has decided...

10 Tips for Talking with Your Husband About Your Sex Life

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 23, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

Talking about sex with your husband can be super awkward. But if you want sex to be good, you’re going to have to figure out how to talk about it! We’re in the last week of our direct communication series on the blog. We’re talked about why direct...

8 Ways to Improve Sex for International Lovemaking Day!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 9, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy

It’s June 9, which means it’s International Lovemaking Day! (If some of you don’t get that, it’s 6/9. I feel like some 13-year-old boy giggling at a sexual innuendo, but there you go). Dan Purcell, the creator of the Intimately Us app, was a...

The ORGASM Series: 10 Things Husbands Who Are Great Lovers Do

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 19, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good, Men's Corner

What do husbands who care about their wife’s pleasure and their wife’s orgasm actually do? We’re in the middle of our orgasm series, culminating in the release of our Orgasm Course next Monday (Yay!). Katie’s frantically editing the last of the...

Why Are So Many Sex Problems in Marriage So Hard to Solve?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 20, 2020 | Sexual Intimacy

When people write in with sex problems, one of the hardest things is that the problem is often not just one thing. It would be wonderful if, when people have problems with sex, it were one simple thing, like: “Our relationship is great and everything is...

If Sex Feels Terrible…How Can You Look Forward to It?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 10, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

So sex feels terrible. You feel nothing–or maybe even some pain. So how do you look forward to it? That’s the question that one of our frequent commenters was asking this week, and I feel for her, because I’ve been in her situation. She’s a...