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Reader Question: My Husband Checks Out Other Women at the Beach!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 24, 2019 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

Summer is here, and many of us are heading to the beach! But what do you do if the beach is a minefield because your husband checks out other women? Some women have written in having this problem. Here’s one woman who says that whenever they’re in public...

How to Help Your Husband Fight Temptation

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 6, 2017 | Pornography, Resolving Conflict

Can your husband admit his faults to you? Can he come to you with his struggles? Are you a safe place for your husband? I was thinking about this recently listening to a friend tell me her story. And it reminded me of a post I wrote a year and a half ago that most you...

Why Every Man’s Battle Backfires: We Should Expect Men Not to Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 20, 2017 | Libido, Pornography, Sexual Intimacy

Women, you are not living in a dream world if you want to be married to a guy who doesn’t lust. It is perfectly reasonable, and utterly biblical, to expect that your husband will not lust after other women–or at least will actively fight a battle with this...

THE LUST SERIES: Men are Visual, But Does That Mean That All Men Lust?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 19, 2017 | Libido, Series, Sexual Intimacy

Does the fact that “men are visually stimulated” mean that all men will struggle with lust? That’s certainly the way it’s commonly presented. We hear things like “Every man’s battle” talking about how the biggest struggle all...

Reader Question of the Week: Why Isn’t My Husband More Affectionate?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 23, 2013 | Emotional Connection, Resolving Conflict

Every weekend I like to post a question someone sends in and let you readers have a go at it. This week’s question comes from a reader, who wants to grow closer with her husband: Is it fair to have ask for and have expectations of our spouse (not referring to...