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Why Doesn’t My Husband Want to Make Love

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 19, 2021 | Libido

What do you do if your husband doesn’t want to make love? That’s such a lonely place to be in a marriage–but it’s far more common than we might normally think. When we were conducting the research for our book The Great Sex Rescue, we asked...

9 Tips for Sexually Frustrated Wives

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Nov 19, 2019 | Libido, Sex

What do you do when you’re feeling sexually frustrated in your marriage? A lot of advice for sexual frustration tends to be for singles, because sex is entirely off the table. But what about when you’re married, when sex IS an option, but your spouse just...

When Your Spouse Isn’t Interested in Sex: Communicating Your Needs

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 7, 2012 | Libido, Sex

What do you do if your spouse isn’t interested in sex? Last month, in my 29 Days to Great Sex series, I was talking about how to make sex great: how to want it, how to be enthusiastic, how to make it fun. But then the emails started to arrive: What do I do if my...

Husband Doesn’t Want to Make Love Day 2: What Can I Do?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 6, 2012 | Libido, Sex, Sexual Intimacy

“My husband doesn’t want me.” It’s one of the most common emails I get. My husband doesn’t want sex, he has a low libido, and I don’t know what to do. I feel really alone in my marriage. Last month I wrote 29 Days to Great Sex,...

Wifey Wednesday: When HE Doesn’t Want It

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 6, 2010 | Libido, Marriage, Sex

What happens in a marriage when HE isn’t interested in sex? Last fall I spoke at a conference, and they also asked me to give a breakout session on libido differences (a subject I cover at length in The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex). A bunch of women...