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Why Don’t My Orgasms Feel Very Good?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 2, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

“When I orgasm, it’s okay, but it’s not amazing or anything.” I’ve heard that from many women in the comments this month, and Keith and I talked about one such reader question on the podcast last Thursday. I was actually going to launch a...

5 Ways Husbands Can Bridge the “Orgasm Gap”

by Keith Gregoire | Oct 30, 2020 | Men's Corner

What can husbands do to help their wives reach orgasm more regularly? Welcome back! It’s Keith here, Sheila’s husband, with another instalment of “Men’s Corner” where we talk primarily to Sheila’s male readers about some of the...

Start Your Engines Podcast: On Arousal Non-Concordance (and the Sexy Sex!)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 29, 2020 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

What can husbands do to help their wives reach orgasm? It’s the last Thursday of the month, which means it’s time for one of our Start Your Engines podcasts, where we talk more to the guys. And today Keith and I are talking about the beliefs &...

Are You Trying to Reach Orgasm Backwards?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 28, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

I’m pretty sure that when most people start The Orgasm Course, they’re going to head right to Module 4. That’s where we talk about sexual technique and how to figure out arousal and orgasm! That’s where we go over erogenous zones and how most...

Do You Just Need a Breakthrough?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 27, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

Do you wonder if orgasm will ever happen for you? Or whether it will ever happen without a vibrator, or during intercourse? When I give my Girl Talk in churches (my sex talk for women!), I always pray over everyone at the end. And I try to mention in that prayer some...

The Orgasm Course is Here!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 26, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

Who doesn’t want to have an orgasm? We’ve been talking all month about orgasms–why it can be difficult for women; what can hold some women back; what makes it more likely to happen. And it’s all been leading up to today–the launch of the...