Should You Marry Someone Who Uses Porn?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 28, 2019 | Marriage, Pornography

What should you do if your fiance watches porn? Quite frankly, Porn destroys marriage. It rewires the brain so that what becomes arousing is an image, rather than a person. And it distorts people’s sexuality, so that we concentrate solely on the physical aspects...

10 Love Stories You Shouldn’t Copy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 14, 2018 | Preparing for Marriage

Sometimes a love story is beautiful, but AWFULLY risky! I asked on my Facebook Page recently: what elements of your love story shouldn’t have worked but did? And I got some great stories! (Seriously, I’ve been asking a lot of questions on Facebook lately...

10 Tips to Help Your Daughter Recognize a “Good Guy” from a “Bad Guy”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 24, 2018 | Parenting Teenagers, Preparing for Marriage

Does your daughter know how to recognize a “good guy”? Last week I shared my thoughts about that viral post “Men Prefer Debt Free Virgins without Tattoos“. One of the points I was making is that, ultimately, rules don’t tell you a thing...

Reader Question: Can Dating Long Distance Work?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 16, 2018 | Preparing for Marriage, Videos

Can a long distance engagement work? Or do you have to live in the same city at some point? On Mondays I like to take a reader question and try to answer it, and lately I’ve been doing things a little bit differently. We’ve been answering our reader...

The Best Advice for Choosing a Good Husband

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 19, 2018 | Preparing for Marriage

How do you choose a good husband? How do you know that the guy you’re marrying is a good guy? This is a super exciting week in my family, because my daughter Katie is getting married on Saturday! And because of that, we’re busy gearing up for the wedding...

Top 10 Tips for Finding a Spouse in Your Forties

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 30, 2018 | Preparing for Marriage

If you’re in your 40s and you’re single, how do you find a spouse? To Love, Honor and Vacuum is a marriage blog, and I write mostly marriage advice. But many single women end up reading my blog. I also have others who have been in difficult marriages, who...

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