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Is Women’s Orgasm an Afterthought? A Look at What Men & Women Think

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 22, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

How do men and women feel about the amount of foreplay in their marriage? Yesterday was a super momentous day at the Gregoire household, because Keith and I (and Joanna!) finished The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and sent it off to the publisher! Yay!...

The PODCAST Extras: The One Big Roadblock to Orgasm

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 15, 2020 | Podcasts

With all the things that harm a woman’s chances of orgasm, does any one thing stand out? We’re in the middle of our orgasm series on the blog this month, and for this week’s podcast I wanted to elaborate on something I said in last week’s...

The ORGASM SERIES: What Sex Is Like for Women Who Never Orgasm

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 13, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

About a quarter of women never reach orgasm, or very rarely reach orgasm, when they have sex with their husbands. Another quarter orgasm only sometimes. According to our survey of 20,000 Christian women, only 48% of women is orgasm reliable. During the month of...

THE ORGASM SERIES: You Are Not Broken if You Can’t Reach Orgasm

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 5, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good, Series

Over half of Christian women report that orgasm is, at best, a hit and miss thing. Many can’t reach orgasm at all. This month, I want to dedicate my series to orgasm–understanding what it is; understanding why we have roadblocks; and culminating in...

What if Low Libido Women Are Often Sexually Starved Women?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 25, 2020 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

Are libido differences really about libido–or are they often about orgasm? We’ve been talking about libido all month, and how to navigate libido differences. And as I’ve been repeatedly saying, our survey of 20,000 women (and others) have shown that...

PODCAST: What if Libido Differences and Frequency Aren’t the Real Issues?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 17, 2020 | Libido, Podcasts

We talk about frequency issues and libido issues in marriage as if they’re the problem to be solved. But what if they’re more symptoms of other problems? Every now and then we record a podcast that I think is truly important. I mean, I like them all, but...