Top 10 Things to Know About Women and Arousal

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 30, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

How does arousal work for women? For many of us it’s a big mystery! And if we’re going to aim to have mutually satisfying sex–where sex is not just about a man’s physical release, but is about a woman’s pleasure, too–then we need to...

How to Be a Generous Lover: Husband’s Edition

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 27, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex

How can a man be a generous lover? Last week we talked about what it took for a wife to be a generous lover. And all month we’ve been looking at what it means for sex to be a mutual experience–where it’s meant to be good for both of you, where both...

Can the “Do Not Deprive” Verses Apply to Women’s Needs, Too?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 27, 2019 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

How often have you heard the “Do Not Deprive” verses, from 1 Corinthians 7, used to tell women they’re not doing enough as a wife to keep their husbands sexually satisfied? Last month I conducted a poll on Twitter, where I asked: Which message have...

PODCAST: How Our Bodies Work, Sexual Health, and More!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 21, 2019 | Podcasts

This is a bit of a DIFFERENT version of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! We’re getting a little bit more technical in terms of how to make sex feel great. I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit...

5 Tips to Make Multiple Orgasms More Likely

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 20, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

Are multiple orgasms a thing? And if so, how do you get there? This month I’ve been focusing the blog on the physical aspects of sex–both how to make it feel physically great, and also how to address some problems that you may be having. I talked about how...

What is the G-Spot? And How Can I Find It?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 13, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

Does the G-spot exist? And what is it? Here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum (where we talk about how to make marriage and sex more than just chores!) I like to be a safe place to talk about sex. I know that there are some things that people want to know, but...

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