Guest Author Archives - To Love, Honor and Vacuum

She Doesn’t Need to Put Out. That’s Not All He Thinks About! How Our Sexuality Got Derailed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 19, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy

Today’s post is by Dorothy Littell Greco, author of Making Marriage Beautiful and Marriage in the Middle, a great book about marriage in midlife. Today she adapts an excerpt for us from Marriage in the Middle about how faulty teaching and cultural...

6 Ways to Connect in the Middle Years of Marriage

by Emily Murchison | Oct 22, 2019 | Emotional Connection, Spending Time Together

Can your marriage stay close in those middle years? All month we’ve been talking about the different stages of sex–how sex changes as you get older and your marriage grows. We talked about the honeymoon years, the busy years, and the glory years. This week...

10 Reasons Marriage Was Never Meant to Be a Power Struggle

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 26, 2019 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

Sometimes the way we talk about marriage makes it sound like marriage is a big power struggle. I don’t believe that this was ever what God intended, and I think there’s a much better way of looking at it. I’ve been following Natalie Hoffman now for...

Creating the Bedroom of Your Dreams–Even if Your Budget is a Nightmare

by Kathi Lipp | Jul 20, 2018 | Uncategorized

What’s your idea of the bedroom of your dreams? Once a month my good blogging buddy Kathi Lipp, from Clutter Free Academy, is going to be joining us (and I’m visiting her blog, too!). Kathi is so down-to-earth and so funny, and we actually know each other...

Finally Reaching Orgasm Part 2: How One Reader Had a Breakthrough

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 13, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

What’s the next step if you’ve learned everything you can about how to have great sex, but your body isn’t getting with the program? Yesterday I shared the first half of a post that a reader sent me (who wishes to remain anonymous) about her journey...

When You’ve Never Had an Orgasm: How to Experience the Breakthrough

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 12, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

What do you do if you’ve never really enjoyed sex or never had an orgasm? I’ve had a lot of women write in frustration in the comments of the blog lately that they’ve given up hope for a good sex life. Sex just doesn’t feel good, no matter how...