Start Your Engines Podcast: Why Great Sex Needs Us to Be Giving

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 19, 2019 | Podcasts

What if great sex means that guys kind of have to be, well, super generous? Keith joined me for another podcast today aimed mostly (but not entirely) at the men! Every month, on the last week of the month, I like to do a “Start Your Engines” podcast for...

Top 10 Things to Know About Women and Arousal

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 30, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

How does arousal work for women? For many of us it’s a big mystery! And if we’re going to aim to have mutually satisfying sex–where sex is not just about a man’s physical release, but is about a woman’s pleasure, too–then we need to...

Should You Aim for Arousal, Not Sex?

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Apr 26, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

What if the reason sex doesn’t feel good for some women is that they haven’t had a chance to learn what arousal feels like? It’s Rebecca on the blog today. We get a ton of emails and comments from women with low libido, and a lot of them are quite...

Reader Question: My Husband Refuses to Talk About Important Stuff

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 19, 2018 | Resolving Conflict

What do you do when your husband refuses to talk about serious marriage issues? We’re talking about intimacy this month on To Love, Honor and Vacuum, and over the last week I’ve had a number of people write in about husbands who refuse to talk and...

Ask Sheila: Help! Foreplay Hurts–My Husband’s Wrist!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 1, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good, Marriage, Sex

What do you do if foreplay actually hurts–the guy I mean? Yep, here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, we tackle every kind of sex question imaginable. And today, for my Ask Sheila video, I thought I’d tackle this one (and with many thanks to the Ultimate...

Reader question: How Do I Get the Desire to Please my Husband Sexually?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 5, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good, Sex

What if you like sex, but you don’t really get the desire to please your husband sexually? You enjoy making love, but pleasing him isn’t really at the forefront of your mind during the whole thing! Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a...

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