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10 Tips for Winter Pajamas that Are Warm–but Still Sexy!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 5, 2017 | body image, fun in bed

How do you choose sexy pajamas–that are still warm? Recently I wrote a “Fight the Frump” series at the blog, where I encouraged all of us to try to spend just a few minutes looking put together every morning–to show that we respect ourselves....

Fight the Frump: Looking Put Together with Outfits

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 17, 2017 | body image

Are you ready to create outfits that work for you? We’ve been talking all week about how to fight the frump, covering hair, natural-looking makeup, and finding clothes that fit and flatter. Now we’re going to bring it all together by talking about that...

Fight the Frump: Finding Clothes that Fit and Flatter

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 16, 2017 | body image

It’s Fight the Frump week here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, and today we’re going to talk about how to find items of clothing that fit and flatter you. We’ve talked about hair and makeup so far, because your face is where people look first. You want...

Fight the Frump: Mastering Natural Makeup

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 15, 2017 | body image

Let’s fight the frump today by talking about makeup! All week we’ve been talking about getting rid of that frumpy feeling by taking care of our appearance and showing that we respect ourselves. It’s not about being a fashion model or having a certain...

Fight the Frump: A Good Haircut Makes a Huge Difference!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 14, 2017 | body image

We’re in the early part of our Fight the Frump week! And for this edition, I want to talk about hair. But first, let’s go back to some basic principles. Fighting the frump is NOT about vanity and not about living up to some magazine cover. Fighting the...

Fight the Frump: Let’s Get Dressed!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 13, 2017 | body image

Do you feel frumpy? Look, no one has to live up to society’s standard of beauty. No one needs to be a size 4. But what I’m talking about has nothing to do with your figure and everything to do with the amount of effort we decide to put into our appearance....