erotica Archives - To Love, Honor and Vacuum

6 Reasons Your Mind and Body May Not Connect During Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 6, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy

Sex would be so much easier if our bodies would just do what we want them to do, wouldn’t it? Or if our minds would just get “in the game” when it was time? Welcome to our Embodiment Series, where we’re talking about the mind-body connection....

PODCAST: What Does it Mean to Be a Sexual Being?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 13, 2020 | Podcasts

Can you be a sexual being–even if you’re single? What does being sexual mean, anyway? Valentine’s Day is tomorrow, and so I thought I’d explore what it means to be sexual in the podcast today, and how being sexual involves our bodies, yes, but...

Top 10 Things Higher Libido Wives Need to Know

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 26, 2018 | Libido

Being a higher libido wife can be very frustrating–if you’re paired with a lower libido man! This week here on the blog I’m talking to wives with a higher libido than their husbands. Yesterday and today I want to address the situation where she has a...

Retraining Your Brain to Fantasize about HIM — and No One Else!

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Jun 20, 2018 | Libido, Sex

What do you do if you fantasize about romance novels or TV shows, but you can’t seem to fantasize about your husband? It’s Rebecca on the blog today. I wrote a post a while back talking about how sexual desire is not wrong in and of itself, and why sexual...

When Making Love Doesn’t Seem “Hot” Enough

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 2, 2017 | Pornography, Sexual Intimacy

Let’s face it: sometimes sex with our husbands just doesn’t seem that “hot”. Now that may be because sex has just gotten boring. But sometimes there’s something more sinister at work. And I want to talk about that today, since it’s...

Wifey Wednesday:It’s Time to Break Up with Your Imaginary Boyfriend

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 14, 2016 | Emotional Connection, Tough Marriage Situations

Do you struggle with romantic thoughts about other guys–how life would be so romantic with him? We’ve been talking for the last few days about libido, and how men and women tend to approach sex differently. A number of you wrote to tell me that...