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How Do We Make Sure These Two Horrific News Articles Stop Happening?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 2, 2022 | Abuse

I read two terrible news articles over the weekend that had me grieving and got me all riled up. News article #1: A woman reports her rape to her Christian college, and is then is banned from campus for having pre-marital sex. NBC News explains what happened: When...

How Can Men Fix Their Sex Lives if They’ve Gone Downhill?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 28, 2022 | Libido, Sexual Intimacy

What if a guy knows he’s gone down a bad path with his sex life–but he doesn’t know how to get back? Like many of you probably did, I spent much of the weekend watching the invasion of Ukraine by Russia unfold on social media. There were some heartwarming and...

Can We Have a More Balanced Conversation about Oral Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 3, 2021 | Making Sex Feel Good

Have you ever noticed that when we talk about oral sex in the Christian community, we usually frame it as something he wants and she should give? In that now infamous Edinburgh sermon that went viral, for instance, Mark Driscoll talked about how a woman should...

The Duty Sex Isn’t Sexy Podcast

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 11, 2021 | Podcasts

Do you have to have sex with your husband whenever he wants it? In our survey of 20,000 women, the results of which are out in our new book The Great Sex Rescue, which launches March 2, a full 43% of Christian women report being taught this as they were growing...

PODCAST: Marital Rape, Consent, and the Problem with “Obligation Sex”

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 23, 2020 | Libido, Podcasts

What does consent mean in marriage? And is there marital rape? On today’s podcast we’re going to tackle a touchy topic. Two weeks ago, in our podcast about the book The Act of Marriage, we read the story of “Aunt Matilda”, who was raped on...

How Volunteering Helped My Kids Be Less Entitled

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 3, 2016 | Family

What do you do when you realize you’ve raised an entitled son or daughter? Parenting doesn’t always go how we planned. So what do you do when you realize that you’ve raised a kid who has a serious attitude problem, without making them feel attacked?...