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8 Ways to Improve Sex for International Lovemaking Day!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 9, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy

It’s June 9, which means it’s International Lovemaking Day! (If some of you don’t get that, it’s 6/9. I feel like some 13-year-old boy giggling at a sexual innuendo, but there you go). Dan Purcell, the creator of the Intimately Us app, was a...

What’s Holding You Back from Great Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 20, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

Often what we think about sex gets in the way of great sex. We’re in the middle of our orgasm series, and we’re less than one week out from releasing our Orgasm Course! I’m so excited (though I still have a ton to do!). One of the things that...

Spice Things Up with the “Intimately Us” App!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 30, 2020 | Spicing Things Up

If I were going to make a marriage app for couples to spice up their marriage, what would I focus on? I’ve often wondered that. I’ve thought about how I’d encourage fun “games” where couples get challenges to do more foreplay, but in a...

How to Tell Your Husband What You Want in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 11, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

How do you tell your husband what you want in bed? It’s a scary thing, isn’t it? You have to be vulnerable and actually share something intensely personal. Here’s a letter I received from a reader: Reader Question My husband and I can talk about...

10 Tips for Newlywed Brides Who Haven’t Had an Orgasm Yet

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 8, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

What do you do if you’re in the newlywed phase, but you’ve never had an orgasm? This week we’ve been talking about the “figuring things out” stage of sex, and I’ve been explaining that, for most people, the best years of sex in...

How Do You Grieve the Honeymoon Years You Never Had?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 7, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good

What if the honeymoon years passed you by, and sex was never good? How do you come to terms with the fact that you’ve missed out on something you can never get back? Over the month of October I’m going to be talking about the different stages of sex in...