What If You’re Not in Love with Your Boyfriend?

by Rebecca Gregoire | May 22, 2017 | preparing for marriage, romance

What do you do if you’re not in love with your boyfriend–but you really want to be? Connor and I met in September, were dating in January, and were engaged exactly 11 months and 20 days later. Six months later, on July 18 2015, we were married. We had a...

Will I Have to Settle in Marriage?

by Sheila Gregoire | Jan 31, 2017 | preparing for marriage

If you’re single, you may be looking out at all the prospects that are around you, and wondering, “Am I going to have to settle in marriage?” Are your dreams for the kind of guy you want going to have to go out the window if you do actually want to...

On Katie Reading Her 11-Year-Old Diary and What It Taught Me as a Mom

by Sheila Gregoire | May 26, 2016 | teenagers

So yesterday was my birthday! I flew out to British Columbia with my youngest daughter Katie to spend the day with my cousin, who shares a birthday with me. We’re having a lovely time, and we’re heading out for a hike today, too! Today I have a new video...

The Best Dating Advice Ever

by Sheila Gregoire | Mar 14, 2016 | preparing for marriage

Today I’m going to share with you the best dating advice ever. I know on Mondays I usually post reader questions and try to answer them, and I do have a backlog of about 50. But as I’ve been glancing through so many of them I’ve noticed a...

Top 10 Long Distance Relationship Date Ideas

by Sheila Gregoire | Feb 9, 2016 | romance, spending time together

If you don’t live near your fiance/significant other, you can still have a great time together! And since we’re all about romance and love here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, I thought I’d share 10 great long distance date ideas here for Top 10...

Top 10 Tips for Teaching Kids About Sex

by Sheila Gregoire | Nov 10, 2015 | Parenting, Sex

We live in a world with such distorted sexuality that teaching kids about sex in a healthy way becomes challenging. First there’s our culture which tells us that sexiness is all that matters–that sexual experimentation is part of figuring out who you are...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.