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How Porn Use Before Marriage Affects Marriage Now

How Porn Use Before Marriage Affects Marriage Now

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 3, 2019 | Parenting Teenagers, Pornography

If a guy (or a teenage girl) has grown up using porn, how is that going to affect marriage? I’m going to take a bit of a time-out from Christmas posts today to talk about something that’s come up lately that I think is important. If you’ve been...
Do I Have to Indulge My Husband’s Fantasies?

Do I Have to Indulge My Husband’s Fantasies?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 15, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

If your husband wants you to do a striptease or send him sexy photos, doesn’t that mean he’s perverted? Do you have to indulge him? Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and I found one from a few years ago...
Porn and Anger: How Porn Use Stunts Emotional Growth

Porn and Anger: How Porn Use Stunts Emotional Growth

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 4, 2019 | Pornography

Porn and anger go together, because porn doesn’t just affect someone’s sex drive. Porn affects personality, too.Last weekend I was speaking in Edmonton at the Breakforth conference on a cold, dark, freezing rain Sunday morning. The topic was “how...
How One Man Confessed His Porn Addiction to His Wife

How One Man Confessed His Porn Addiction to His Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 11, 2018 | Pornography

We talk a lot about what to do when your husband struggles with porn here on the site. Today, however, we get to hear from Hugh Huston, author of Jesus is Better than Porn, who is himself a husband who struggled with porn for 30 years. And when he decided enough was...
Is Erectile Dysfunction Killing Your Husband’s Libido?

Is Erectile Dysfunction Killing Your Husband’s Libido?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 28, 2018 | Libido, Pornography

Could erectile dysfunction be wrecking your husband’s sex drive? This week I’ve been writing for higher-drive wives, and today we’re turning to another reason why a husband’s sex drive might be sub-zero: If he’s suffering from erectile...
10 Things to Know About Porn and Your Family

10 Things to Know About Porn and Your Family

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | May 8, 2018 | Pornography

Porn hurts families. It’s that simple. Porn is not harmless, no matter how much it may be portrayed as something “fun” or, at the very least, a “victimless crime” (as if those in porn aren’t victims themselves – porn is...
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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.

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