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How Do I Reconnect with My Husband? Finding the Spark Again

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 5, 2021 | Emotional Connection

“How do I reconnect with my husband?” That’s a question I get in various forms from so many of you who email. Life has gotten too busy, you feel like you pass like ships in the night, and you just want to feel like you know each other again. As...

A Way to Show Love to Your Spouse–and Meet their Emotional Needs

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 19, 2019 | Emotional Connection

How do you show love to your husband? How does your wife want to be loved? Our monthly theme for Wednesdays this month is about small, practical things you can put in place that can seriously help your marriage and help you to feel really close. Like, what are the...

10 Ways to Get the Spark Back in Your Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 22, 2019 | Marriage, Spending Time Together

How do you get that spark back in your marriage if you feel like you’ve lost it? How do you rekindle that excitement about being together if you feel like you’ve just become roommates? Never fear! I totally believe this can be done. I recently...

What Does Making Love Really Mean? The Beauty of Sexual Intimacy

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 21, 2018 | Sexual Intimacy

Making love and having sex are not the same thing. One is far more profound. One is a deep love, a deep knowing. The other is simply about the physical act. This month on Wednesdays we’re talking about different aspects of intimacy. I started by talking about...

Why Is It So Hard to Say Yes to Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 9, 2018 | Libido, Sex

Why is it so hard sometimes to say yes to sex? I asked that question a while back on my Facebook Page (have you joined yet?) and got some interesting answers! Here’s what you all said about why you’re rarely in the mood for making love:...

How to Reconnect Spiritually with Your Husband

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 25, 2018 | Faith, Marriage

Do you feel spiritually connected with your husband? We focus so much on making sure we marry good, Christian guys who share our faith, but how many spouses actually take time to foster a spiritual connection with that great Christian guy? We’ve got a great post...