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Sexual Confidence Doesn’t Mean You’re Willing to Try Anything in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 8, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy, Spicing Things Up

There’s a myth that sexual confidence and being adventurous in bed are synonyms. I think they’re related, but only tangentially, and I think the fact that we equate them is part of the problem. In October and November we’re talking about sexual...

Can Christians Use Sex Toys?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 21, 2021 | Bare Marriage

Today I want to revisit a rather controversial topic. Except “want” is really not the right word. I’d love to run as far away from this one as possible. But I keep being asked about sex toys, and I haven’t written about them in a long time, and...

I’m Answering Some of Your Sex Questions Today!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 4, 2018 | Sex

I know a lot of you have some pretty specific sex questions you’d like answered. I’ve tried to tackle some of them on the blog (you can see a huge roundup of some of my most important questions about marriage here). And when I give my Girl Talk event in...

When Your Husband Says He Wants More Variety in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 22, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

What do you do when your husband wants more sexual variety? This week we’ve been talking about embracing your sexuality (with a little detour for some current events about sexual abuse in the church), so I thought I’d tackle the issue of what to do if your...

When Your Husband Wants Something in Bed You Think is Gross

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 12, 2017 | Making Sex Feel Good, Pornography

What do you do if your husband wants you to do something in bed that you really hate? We’re in the middle of the Sizzling Summer Sex Series, and we’ve been talking this week about learning to be passionate, give up control, and help sex not be boring! And...

10 Questions About Sex Christian Women Ask

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 24, 2015 | Sex

One of the most fun parts of my Girl Talk presentation–when I go into churches and talk about marriage, sex, and intimacy–is the anonymous Q&A when I answer people’s embarrassing questions about sex–questions they’ve had for ages, but...