How to Reconnect with Your Body if You’re an Abuse Survivor (or Trauma Survivor)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 4, 2019 | Abuse

When you’re abused, a common defense mechanism is dissociation–when you mentally “flee” your body and try to be anywhere but here. That helps you live through trauma. But it also creates a whole heap of problems down the road when you’re...

Finding a Bra that Actually Fits: Solutions to 3 Common Bra Dilemmas

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 28, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

Lots of us have challenges finding a bra that actually fits. I wrote last week about how much fun I had fitting bras in Kenya – it was amazing to see how much getting a bra means to the girls we meet in Kenya. Our fittings were done over top of our t-shirts and...

The Only Way to Change a Marriage–Plus You Don’t Have to Obey Your Dad When You’re 24

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 22, 2019 | Podcasts

There’s only one way to grow a marriage. Do you know what it is? It’s time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don’t have time, I’ll have some links and rabbit trails below so you...

Choosing Panties for Your Body Type–that Make You Feel Sexy and Comfortable

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 14, 2019 | Sex

Can you feel sexy in the underwear that you wear? I’m on a mission this month to help us all reclaim our lingerie drawers and choose items that help us feel sexy! Every Wednesday in the month of August we’re going to be talking about bringing sexy back,...

How to Choose Lingerie that Makes You Feel Sexy

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Aug 7, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

What does “lingerie” mean to you? Some of us, when we think lingerie, immediately think of sexy, lacy pieces that take about 10 minutes to actually get into and about 30 seconds to take off. You know the pieces I’m talking about–the ones that...

My 40% Modesty Rule: A Better Way to Look at How to Dress

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 25, 2019 | Theology of Marriage and Sex

What does it mean to be modest? What are proper modesty rules? I’ve been talking all month about how the message that “men lust all the time so women have to have sex to stop men from lusting” is so dangerous and unbiblical. Yet in far too many...

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