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Why Don’t My Orgasms Feel Very Good?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 2, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

“When I orgasm, it’s okay, but it’s not amazing or anything.” I’ve heard that from many women in the comments this month, and Keith and I talked about one such reader question on the podcast last Thursday. I was actually going to launch a...

Start Your Engines Podcast: On Arousal Non-Concordance (and the Sexy Sex!)

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 29, 2020 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

What can husbands do to help their wives reach orgasm? It’s the last Thursday of the month, which means it’s time for one of our Start Your Engines podcasts, where we talk more to the guys. And today Keith and I are talking about the beliefs &...

Start Your Engines: Your Wife’s Not Broken!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 30, 2020 | Men's Corner, Podcasts

What happens when a couple gets married, and sex doesn’t work well for her? Well, I’ll tell you what often happens. The couple assumes that she doesn’t like sex. That she doesn’t enjoy sex. That she’s just not sexual. And she feels...

How to Awaken Love…or at Least Stop Feeling Like You’re Broken!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 15, 2020 | Abuse, Making Sex Feel Good

The title of this post may sound corny, but do you remember that verse about awakening love in Song of Solomon? Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. Song of Solomon...