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Sexual Confidence Doesn’t Mean You’re Willing to Try Anything in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 8, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy, Spicing Things Up

There’s a myth that sexual confidence and being adventurous in bed are synonyms. I think they’re related, but only tangentially, and I think the fact that we equate them is part of the problem. In October and November we’re talking about sexual...

Do I Have to Indulge My Husband’s Fantasies?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Apr 15, 2019 | Spicing Things Up

If your husband wants you to do a striptease or send him sexy photos, doesn’t that mean he’s perverted? Do you have to indulge him? Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and I found one from a few years ago...

Reader question: My Husband Won’t Get Adventurous in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 17, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good, Sexual Intimacy

What do you do if your husband is not adventurous in bed–and you’re getting kind of bored? On Mondays I like to answer a reader question via video, because a lot of questions I’ve actually answered now in the past, so I’d like to make it more...

When Your Husband Says He Wants More Variety in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 22, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good

What do you do when your husband wants more sexual variety? This week we’ve been talking about embracing your sexuality (with a little detour for some current events about sexual abuse in the church), so I thought I’d tackle the issue of what to do if your...

The Most Amazing App to Rev Up Your Sex Life!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 12, 2018 | Making Sex Feel Good, Sex

This post is sponsored by The Ultimate Intimacy App, but all opinions are my own. Over the years I’ve thought about creating an app to help couples with their sex lives, because so many websites or other products are kind of, well, gross. But now I don’t...

Can We Reclaim “Sexy” As Christians?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 26, 2017 | Making Sex Feel Good

When you hear the word “sexy”, does it have a negative connotation or a positive one to you? The world treats sex like it’s shallow, only physical, and thus rather degrading. And in our quest to reclaim sex as something which God created to be...