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by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 18, 2020 | Sheila Snippets, Videos

The summer’s winding down, and some of us are starting to plan for the fall! I know some of my American friends have children already in school (which is so weird to this Canadian, where we never start until after Labour Day!), but I have a few fun things to...

Why It’s 31 Days TO Great Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 14, 2020 | Making Sex Feel Good

Today, the updated 31 Days to Great Sex launches again! For years, I published it myself, and it sold wonderfully. But I decided that I wanted it to go bigger than just my blog, so I sold it to Zondervan, and then updated it, changed some of the challenges based on...

Why We Need a New Definition of Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 13, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex

What does it mean to have sex with your husband? That may seem like a silly question, but it’s what I’ve been building up to on the blog and in my podcasts for the last few weeks. And here’s why the definition matters: I believe that sex is an...

Reader Question: Shouldn’t Sex Involve Intercourse?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 23, 2015 | Sex

Should sex involve intercourse? Every Monday I like to post a question from a reader and take a stab at answering it. Today’s is a thorny issue: what if your husband wants things OTHER than intercourse all the time? Reader Question My husband often prefers us to...

Wifey Wednesday: Does God Like Men Better? Why It’s Hard for Women to Reach Orgasm

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 11, 2015 | Emotional Connection, Making Sex Feel Good, Marriage, Sex, Sexual Intimacy

Does God just like men better? It can seem that way since it’s so hard for women to reach orgasm. It’s Wednesday, the day that we always talk marriage! And today, in our lead up to Valentine’s Day, I want to address an often unspoken question when it...

We Stopped Having Sex–and Here’s What I Learned

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 21, 2014 | Emotional Connection, Libido, Marriage, Sex, Sexual Intimacy

“We stopped having sex.” A woman wrote her story on my Facebook Page yesterday, and I thought it was worth sharing with you, and could help clarify perhaps my thinking around the post yesterday–“Should you have sex even if you don’t feel...