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How do you get ready for sex in marriage? Instead of doing a typical post today, I have a few quick things that I want to share. First, do we set too high expectations for the wedding night? Why is sex often so difficult early on for so many couples? I sat...read more
What do you do when your wedding goes wrong? When all your plans for your big day fall apart? Weddings are stressful. And how can they not be? The day of the wedding is the day we go from being a "Me" to being and "Us." Weddings are exciting, terrifying,...read more
What would happen if you went to marriage counseling, and you were handed a list of 100 sins you may be committing against your husband? It's time for a new To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! And this one is a little bit different. Something was brought to...read more
Many of us jump into marriage never knowing terms for various aspects of sex. Even if we understand the basics of "the deed," proper words and terms aren't always taught. This month, during Wednesday posts, I’ve been talking about sex ed for Christians. I...read more
What do you do if your husband wants to smoke pot? That may feel out of left field, but increasingly I'm having readers write in with that question. Marijuana is legal in many jurisdictions now--Europe; Canada; many individual states. So I thought it was...read more
What does the penis and clitoris tell us about God? About sex? About how God intended us to relate to each other? I've got a new podcast up! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can...read more
If you notice a woman is beautiful, is that a sin? Have you already lusted after her in your heart? If you read many best-selling marriage books, you'd say yes. If you notice a woman, then you're tempted to undress her. That temptation makes you focus on...read more
We live in a world with such distorted sexuality that teaching kids about sex in a healthy way becomes challenging. First there's our culture which tells us that sexiness is all that matters--that sexual experimentation is part of figuring out who you are...read more
When I give my Girl Talk, I often have questions about sex leftover that I didn't get a chance to answer. I'm just back from a speaking trip out in Alberta, where I did two Girl Talks and one general women's event. My Girl Talks are so much fun! It's a...read more
Talking to your kids about sex is a daunting task. But what do you do when your little ones start asking questions and you think, "I thought I had time before I had to deal with this!" Let's face it, sex conversations are almost always awkward. But they...read more