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We want to help YOU have these conversations with your kids–without them being so awkward! Introducing The Whole Story, our video-based course on sex, puberty and growing up, where Christian young people tell your kids what they need to know–and make it easy for YOU to continue those conversations.
“My daughters and I are all loving (especially me!) how easy and how thorough it makes everything. It’s so fun and accessible!” – Course Student
It’s your complete guide to making sex awesome–physically, emotionally, AND spiritually. The go-to-guide for every woman.
“…so beautiful and freeing!” – Reader
Do you want to WANT sex again? This video course can help you discover that you’re not broken–and that you can unlock the key to desire!
“This course was an answer to prayer!” – S.
Sometimes the way we THINK about marriage is what’s stopping us from having the relationship we dreamed of. In 9 Thoughts, I challenge you to think bigger and messier–and find real intimacy.
“This is my favorite of all your books!” – Maria
Want to spice up your marriage and have some fun? Try our 24 Sexy Dares. They’re easy. They’re quick & cheap (or free) to do. But they’re unforgettable!
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Sheila Wray Gregoire
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