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Are You to Blame if Your Spouse Cheats on You?

Jul 26, 2019 | Tough Marriage Situations | 146 Comments

If your husband has an affair, are you partially to blame? That's been something I've been debating heatedly on Facebook and Twitter this week, because I saw this Facebook status by Focus on the Family: I found this rather disturbing, and posted it both on...

PODCAST: The Purity Culture and the Prosperity Gospel

Jul 25, 2019 | Podcasts, Preparing for Marriage | 29 Comments

It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! Today we did a bit of a different one. Rather than having all of our segments, we just talked about one big thing: the earthquake in Christian circles where the purity culture is falling...

How to Sync Your Libidos

Jul 24, 2019 | Libido | 5 Comments

Ever feel like your sex drives never match up--like your libidos are just never in sync? On Wednesdays this month we're looking at practical help for improving your sex life, and today I thought I'd turn to libido issues. Libido is something that I've written a LOT...

Hiking in the Rain, Air BNBs, and Peasants

Jul 23, 2019 | Sheila Snippets | 20 Comments

I'm horribly jetlagged, we had a wonderful trip to England, and I wish I could say I was excited to be home. Usually by the end of a trip I'm thinking, "Okay, this has been fun, but it's time to go home." I really wasn't thinking that this time. We spent the last week...

Marriage Reader Questions: Lightning Round Edition

Jul 22, 2019 | Marriage | 11 Comments

We're back in Canada! We had a wonderful time in England spending time sight seeing and also doing some genealogy research, but we're also really glad to be back. But in the meantime, while I'm adjusting to the jet lag, I have SUCH a backlog of reader questions that...

How to Throw Your Child a Blessing Party

Jul 19, 2019 | Parenting Teenagers | 8 Comments

Do you know what it really means to bless your child? When my daughters turned 13, each of them got a special party for their birthday dedicated to having key people in their lives share messages of encouragement and call out the ways God was moving and...

PODCAST: Can Parents Make it Harder for Their Kids to Marry Well?

Jul 18, 2019 | Parenting Teenagers, Podcasts | 23 Comments

It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And consider this podcast "extras". If you want...

How to Get More Adventurous in Bed

Jul 17, 2019 | Spicing Things Up | 4 Comments

Want to get more adventurous when it comes to sex, but don't know where to start? This month we're focusing on practical tips for a better sex life. We've talked about how to try new positions, how to have sex even when it's so hot you don't want to touch each other,...

10 Ways to Help a Stressed-Out Spouse

Jul 16, 2019 | Emotional Connection, Tough Marriage Situations | 11 Comments

Ever feel like your spouse is stressed all the time--and because of that they're always short with you? On Mondays I like to post a reader question and then take a stab at answering it, and today I've got one from a woman who says that when they go on vacation the sex...

Getting Used to Sex in Marriage: 4 Sex Questions from Newlyweds

Jul 15, 2019 | Making Sex Feel Good, Preparing for Marriage | 5 Comments

I've got some questions from newlyweds today!On Mondays I like to take reader questions and take a stab at answering them, but I have so many in backlog that in July I'm going to try to work several questions into my Monday posts. We already did a...

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Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.