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What does the penis, or male genitalia in general, teach us about God, about marriage, about the sexes? This month I'm trying to expand on sex ed for adults in our Wednesday themed posts, and I want to talk today about what the penis tells us about God. So...read more
People land on To Love, Honor and Vacuum in all kinds of ways! It may be links they saw on Twitter or Facebook. It may be posts that people emailed to them. But the two most common ways are Pinterest and Google--with Google being the biggest one. And...read more
How do you give your kids a healthy view of marriage...if your marriage isn't healthy? Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and today I've got a similar question from two hurting wives who are worried about the...read more
Most times, I post a piece celebrating moms the Friday before Mother's Day. But there are many women on this blog and in our communities who struggle with infertility, miscarriages, or infant loss. If that's your story, today I wanted to dedicate this space to you....read more
Does your church keep you from experiencing Jesus? It's time for a new podcast, and I want to talk today about finding an authentic expression of faith. I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so...read more
I remember feeling absolutely embarrassed and in shock at a youth group retreat where the pastor referred to the clitoris. His point was: "God created a part of a woman's body where the only purpose is for her sexual pleasure." At the time I wanted the...read more
Did you know that Supernanny US has uploaded a ton of full episodes to YouTube? Rebecca told me and I was so excited, because the girls and I used to love watching that show when they were teenagers. We'd sit on a Saturday morning with our breakfast and...read more
Do you ever feel like your husband's maid? Every Monday I like to put up a reader question and take a stab at answering it. And today's I think is a sentiment that many of us have had: is my whole life just cleaning up after him? This is a question I get a...read more
A lot of marriage teaching is quite gender based. One of the big things that we often hear is that, when you're discussing a problem, men want to fix things, whereas women just want to be heard. So what a guy is supposed to do is stop trying to fix...read more
Do gender stereotypes help or hurt? It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And...read more