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On Friday I was talking about how churches should handle sexual abuse allegations. But what if you have to report sexual abuse yourself? A number of issues came out in the comments on that post that I thought really should be highlighted. So instead of...read more
Churches and sexual abuse are in the news all too frequently today. First it was the Catholic Church. Then other denominations started to be looked at--most recently in a huge expose of the Southern Baptist Convention (700 victims in 200 churches; read the...read more
This is a bit of a DIFFERENT version of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! We're getting a little bit more technical in terms of how to make sex feel great. I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails...read more
Are multiple orgasms a thing? And if so, how do you get there? This month I've been focusing the blog on the physical aspects of sex--both how to make it feel physically great, and also how to address some problems that you may be having. I talked about...read more
If you decide you should go see a pelvic floor physiotherapist, what can you expect from the appointment? Yesterday Sheela Zelmer, a physiotherapist who specializes in pelvic floor issues, shared with me how a pelvic floor physiotherapist may be able to help you--with...read more
Sometimes women have health conditions--like vaginismus, incontinence, or other pain--that a pelvic floor physiotherapist is uniquely qualified to help with. This month I want to cover more about how the female body actually works when it comes to sex, and...read more
We all need a marriage community–a support system around us of couples our age, and maybe a mentor couple that’s a little bit older, that can breathe into our lives, hold us accountable, and inspire us. In simpler words, we’re supposed to live in...read more
It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! And Happy Valentine's Day! This one has lots of fun things about making sex great, getting over hurdles, and more. I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some...read more
Does the G-spot exist? And what is it? Here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum (where we talk about how to make marriage and sex more than just chores!) I like to be a safe place to talk about sex. I know that there are some things that people want to know, but...read more
Kissing in marriage should be fun! But too often kissing stops once we're married. We see it as foreplay, and many women don't want to put a downpayment down on something they may not want to buy later, if you know what I mean. And many men don't see the...read more