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I love the Bible because it's filled with stories--heroes and villains; kings and peasants; rulers and prophets. And often the Bible leaves us with stories without giving any commentary on them. We're supposed to read the stories and draw our own conclusions. Indeed,...read more
What are To Love, Honor and Vacuum readers like? One thing readers of the blog may not know is that I send out emails on a regular basis. The blog goes out daily to those who want it, and then I send out weekly and monthly emails with extra content to those who want...read more
Vacations are wonderful. But vacations with young kids can be--exhausting! Yesterday was the official Canada Day holiday here in Canada, and tomorrow is July 4 in the U.S. (well, it's July 4 everywhere, but I hope you all know what I mean!). So we're in the throes of...read more
What if the relationship is what is killing your husband's sex drive? We've been talking about marriages where the wife has the higher libido this week. Often, higher libido simply means that she's on the higher end of average libido, and he's on the lower end of...read more
Could erectile dysfunction be wrecking your husband's sex drive? This week I've been writing for higher-drive wives, and today we're turning to another reason why a husband's sex drive might be sub-zero: If he's suffering from erectile dysfunction. Yesterday we looked...read more
Pornography can steal a man's sex drive. We're talking this week about women with the higher sex drive in marriage. On Monday and Tuesday we were looking at women with a high sex drive when there's nothing wrong with him. After all, sometimes the wife has the higher...read more
Being a higher libido wife can be very frustrating--if you're paired with a lower libido man! This week here on the blog I'm talking to wives with a higher libido than their husbands. Yesterday and today I want to address the situation where she has a higher libido...read more
Are men always the ones with the higher sex drives? Nope. Sometimes it's SHE who wants sex far more frequently, and this week we're going to talk about that! Here's the funny thing about talking about "higher sex drives" and "lower sex drives". It's all relative. What...read more
Are you tired of The Chore War with your husband? One of the best parts about blogging is that I meet some amazing other bloggers. And Kathi Lipp is one of them. She and her amazing red hair caught my eye at a MOPS convention years ago, and since then we've been...read more
If you've used porn, and you've rewired your brain to become aroused with fantasy rather than a person, is your sex life in marriage doomed? This week we've been talking about how to use your brain well to get you on the road to a great sex life in marriage. After...read more