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Why do we think that love, emotion, or romance only count if they're spontaneous, rather than something that's planned? This week I've been talking about how to love your husband and how to treat him well, and I want to address this issue of expectations of romance in...read more
How do you ask your husband for help when you need it? Most of the questions I get on this blog are something like this: "My husband is doing X wrong, and I don't know what to do about it. How can I get him to act differently?" Maybe it's that she caught him using...read more
When you're a new mom, how do you keep "mommy" from taking over your identity? We're talking about loving your hubby this week at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, and one of the best ways to do that is not to add ONE MORE THING to your to do list, but instead to do a mind...read more
What if you like sex, but you don't really get the desire to please your husband sexually? You enjoy making love, but pleasing him isn't really at the forefront of your mind during the whole thing! Every Monday I like to post a reader question and take a stab at...read more
Did you know that there's a life sequence that makes a huge difference in avoiding poverty, finding happiness, and generally doing well? A new study on millennials has found a simple life sequence that, if followed, results in 97% of people not being poor. Does it...read more
My daughter got married on Saturday, and I've been thinking a bit about how a wedding can help a couple start well. I'll get back to regularly scheduled programming on the blog soon, but I've got a lot of jumbled thoughts in my head still after last weekend, and I...read more
When a marriage is going “south,” one of the worst things you can do is…nothing. And sometimes the reason we're paralyzed, and we feel like we have no choice, is because we worry that if we do something, the marriage may end. But if we do that, have we turned marriage...read more
My bedroom is currently a mess. At the wedding on Saturday we used our TV room upstairs to shoot a lot of the pictures and video, so we had to clear everything out and it all got stuck on my bedroom floor. I really need to clean up. But I'm so tired! I hate it when my...read more
So my baby girl is married! We had a wonderful Saturday, and I'm absolutely exhausted and spent and happy and I think I just need a good cry. But I haven't had it yet. I keep trying to work myself up to it but haven't quite succeeded. More on that in a bit. I didn't...read more
I'm about to make 4 dozen banana chocolate chip muffins, pick up dry cleaning, and make sure I have Kleenex packed. My house is bustling with so many overnight guests, I don't know if I have enough hairspray, and I'm still praying I fit into my dress. Because tomorrow...read more