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Sometimes we just need to hear why people love marriage! This year has been a heavy one for the Church. So many things have been unearthed and there is a real reckoning happening. I’m beyond grateful that abuse that happened in the dark is being dragged out into the...read more
What do you do if your wife sleeps with the kids instead of with you? That's a question I recently had from a frustrated husband--but it's not the ONLY time a husband has written in like this. On the contrary, we get quite a few, and I've written about the...read more
What if women aren't the main audience for Proverbs 31? I was recently sent a really interesting article by reader Jennifer Walls. She's not a blogger, but she had a thought, and she wanted to share it more widely, so she wondered if I'd like to publish...read more
Are youth pastors too young? Is your counsellor safe? Are the "do not deprive" verses used in the wrong way? It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links...read more
How often have you heard the "Do Not Deprive" verses, from 1 Corinthians 7, used to tell women they're not doing enough as a wife to keep their husbands sexually satisfied? Last month I conducted a poll on Twitter, where I asked: Which message have you...read more
Sometimes the way we talk about marriage makes it sound like marriage is a big power struggle. I don't believe that this was ever what God intended, and I think there's a much better way of looking at it. I've been following Natalie Hoffman now for quite a...read more
On Friday I was talking about how churches should handle sexual abuse allegations. But what if you have to report sexual abuse yourself? A number of issues came out in the comments on that post that I thought really should be highlighted. So instead of...read more
Churches and sexual abuse are in the news all too frequently today. First it was the Catholic Church. Then other denominations started to be looked at--most recently in a huge expose of the Southern Baptist Convention (700 victims in 200 churches; read the...read more
This is a bit of a DIFFERENT version of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! We're getting a little bit more technical in terms of how to make sex feel great. I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails...read more
Are multiple orgasms a thing? And if so, how do you get there? This month I've been focusing the blog on the physical aspects of sex--both how to make it feel physically great, and also how to address some problems that you may be having. I talked about...read more