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A lot of marriage teaching is quite gender based. One of the big things that we often hear is that, when you're discussing a problem, men want to fix things, whereas women just want to be heard. So what a guy is supposed to do is stop trying to fix...read more
Do gender stereotypes help or hurt? It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! And...read more
Homemaking is hard to do well. Maybe you're someone who's really gifted at it (my youngest daughter falls into that category), but most of us find it a bit challenge. When the kids were young and I was a genuine stay at home mom, I'd often find that a...read more
How does arousal work for women? For many of us it's a big mystery! And if we're going to aim to have mutually satisfying sex--where sex is not just about a man's physical release, but is about a woman's pleasure, too--then we need to understand how women...read more
Today I want to tackle a difficult subject: how can you enjoy sex after sexual abuse in your past? Your whole outlook on sex has often been poisoned, so that it's something icky, destructive, manipulative, and even evil. And now you're married to a man...read more
What if the reason sex doesn't feel good for some women is that they haven't had a chance to learn what arousal feels like? It's Rebecca on the blog today. We get a ton of emails and comments from women with low libido, and a lot of them are quite similar...read more
It's time for a new episode of the To Love, Honor and Vacuum podcast! I hope you all will listen, but if you don't have time, I'll have some links and rabbit trails below so you can read all you want as well! Remember--to access all of the podcasts, you...read more
Sometimes you just have to ask your husband for what you need! I've been talking all month about how to change the dynamic in your marriage and start feeling close again. I wanted to end the month with super practical tips, and so I talked about how happy...read more
As a woman, there are times that I have felt invisible. Maybe some of my female readers will agree with me. But I'd like to talk about this today in a way that, hopefully, will point us back to Jesus. I actually planned to have a really awesome post on 10...read more
I've been enjoying a weekend with both of my daughters home and both of their husbands with them. We've gone to church, had big family dinners with extended family, and played a ton of board games. And we've done a little bit of work, too (Connor and David...read more