Libido Differences in Marriage


I have never seen a marriage where the libidos are the same. One person always wants sex more than the other–and that inevitably leads to tension!

And libido differences don’t always go the same way. Yes, in roughly 70% of cases the husband wants sex more than the wife, but as I found in my book The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, in between 24% and 30% of marriages the wife actually wants sex more than the husband.

Click on the link that fits your marriage to see posts that can help YOU navigate differences in your sex drives–and really enjoy a more tension-free sex life in your marriage.

When SHE has the lower libido

Her Lower Libido - Libido Differences

When HE has the lower libido

Him Lower Libido - Libido Differences