Sometimes the way we talk about sex is just plain, well, icky and weird. We are so excited here at To Love, Honor and Vacuum, because in just 5 days our book The Great Sex Rescue officially launches! We’ve spent the last few weeks debunking some harmful...
What if women’s low libido is partly a self-fulfilling prophecy? What happens when women are told: “If your husband is typical, he has a need you don’t have?”, as Love & Respect put it. Over and over again, in our evangelical resources,...
Do you have to have sex with your husband whenever he wants it? In our survey of 20,000 women, the results of which are out in our new book The Great Sex Rescue, which launches March 2, a full 43% of Christian women report being taught this as they were growing...
You cannot defeat porn by becoming methadone for your husband’s porn addiction. And yet that’s exactly what Every Man’s Battle tells women to do! “Your wife can be a methadone-like fix when your temperature is rising.” “Once...
What if we actually ask men about lust–and it turns out that the majority don’t struggle with it? That’s the focus of our podcast today–what does the “all men struggle with lust” message do to us? Before we get started, a quick...
I believe that we can eradicate rape culture from the evangelical church. In fact, I’m committed to it! And in this week’s podcast we’re looking at how to do that. But first, some background. Today marks the beginning of our debunking series, where...
Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.