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Can Christians Use Sex Toys?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 21, 2021 | Spicing Things Up

Today I want to revisit a rather controversial topic. Except “want” is really not the right word. I’d love to run as far away from this one as possible. But I keep being asked about sex toys, and I haven’t written about them in a long time, and...

Spice Things Up with the “Intimately Us” App!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 30, 2020 | Spicing Things Up

If I were going to make a marriage app for couples to spice up their marriage, what would I focus on? I’ve often wondered that. I’ve thought about how I’d encourage fun “games” where couples get challenges to do more foreplay, but in a...

Top 10 Ways to Put Sexy Back into Your Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 29, 2020 | Spicing Things Up

Does your marriage feel “sexy”? Or does it feel “safe”? “Routine”? “Boring”? There’s nothing wrong with safe. There’s nothing even wrong with routine! But let’s face it: sometimes you just want to get...

How to Make Period Sex Less Messy–and More Enticing

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 25, 2020 | Spicing Things Up

Are you somebody who would actually love to have period sex? I’ve been writing about periods all month, and last week we looked at period sex, mostly from the perspective that a woman should not feel obligated to give sexual favors then if she doesn’t want...

PODCAST EXTRAS: Sometimes a Vagina is Just a Vagina

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 9, 2020 | Podcasts, Spicing Things Up

Have more sex questions you can’t ask your pastor? It’s podcast day–and in the month of July I’m tackling all kinds of awkward sex questions! (And don’t forget my webinar TONIGHT at 9 pm EST! Your ticket to the webinar covers not just me...

Top 10 Tips for Initiating Sex with Your Husband

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 8, 2020 | Spicing Things Up

Out of the last five times you’ve made love, how many times have you initiated sex with your husband, and how many has he been the one to initiate? If you say he’s initiated all 5, that could be a problem! Now, I know sometimes you just start making love...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.