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Sexual Confidence Doesn’t Mean You’re Willing to Try Anything in Bed

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 8, 2021 | Sexual Intimacy, Spicing Things Up

There’s a myth that sexual confidence and being adventurous in bed are synonyms. I think they’re related, but only tangentially, and I think the fact that we equate them is part of the problem. In October and November we’re talking about sexual...

Reader Question: My Husband Doesn’t Think our Sex Life is Good Enough!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 8, 2021 | Spicing Things Up

What do you do when your husband thinks you have a bad sex life? Recently we were talking about 10 marriage and sex red flags–signs that there may be something wrong with your marriage. Here’s a really messy question from a woman whose husband has decided...

Spice Things Up with the “Intimately Us” App!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 30, 2020 | Spicing Things Up

If I were going to make a marriage app for couples to spice up their marriage, what would I focus on? I’ve often wondered that. I’ve thought about how I’d encourage fun “games” where couples get challenges to do more foreplay, but in a...

Top 10 Ways to Put Sexy Back into Your Marriage

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 29, 2020 | Spicing Things Up

Does your marriage feel “sexy”? Or does it feel “safe”? “Routine”? “Boring”? There’s nothing wrong with safe. There’s nothing even wrong with routine! But let’s face it: sometimes you just want to get...

How to Make Period Sex Less Messy–and More Enticing

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 25, 2020 | Spicing Things Up

Are you somebody who would actually love to have period sex? I’ve been writing about periods all month, and last week we looked at period sex, mostly from the perspective that a woman should not feel obligated to give sexual favors then if she doesn’t want...

PODCAST EXTRAS: Sometimes a Vagina is Just a Vagina

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jul 9, 2020 | Podcasts, Spicing Things Up

Have more sex questions you can’t ask your pastor? It’s podcast day–and in the month of July I’m tackling all kinds of awkward sex questions! (And don’t forget my webinar TONIGHT at 9 pm EST! Your ticket to the webinar covers not just me...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.