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How Did the “All Men Struggle with Lust” Message Affect You?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 16, 2021 | Libido, Pornography

The “All men struggle with lust” message is a toxic one. On Tuesday I don’t write blog posts anymore–but I published something on Facebook this morning that I thought I’d move over here as well! Yesterday I asked in my Instagram stories...

SEXUAL CONFIDENCE: 4 Tips for Building Sexual Confidence as the Higher Drive Wife

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 1, 2021 | Libido

I’ve often said that the higher drive wife carries a lot of burdens that other permutations of libido do not. It can be very difficult to be a husband married to a woman who doesn’t want sex, but at least that’s culturally expected. As a woman,...

Are You Feeling too Schlubby to Want to Have Sex?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 29, 2021 | Healthy Living, Libido

The way we feel about our bodies can cause our libido to crater. And when you feel schlubby (I love that word!), it’s hard to want to get it on. I get the best stuff sent to me from readers, and last week a reader passed along an article from the Wall Street...

Men and Women Are Different When it Comes to Sex–but Thankfully It’s Not Because of Our Brains

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 4, 2021 | Libido

Last week we were talking about how neuroscience does NOT say that men and women are different species when it comes to sex. Rebecca and Connor talked on the Bare Marriage podcast last week about how we’ve been told by many evangelical authors that neuroscience...

How to Tell if Christian Authors Are Using Junk Science about Gender Differences

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Oct 1, 2021 | Libido

How do you know if a book is using junk science to prove a point? I thought I’d combine last week’s podcast on a DIY test to see if Christian books are harmful or helpful and this week’s podcast on the problems with the way that far too many...

What Does It Mean to “Prioritize Your Sex Life”?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Sep 10, 2021 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

I see advice all the time in both Christian and secular realms telling married couples to “prioritize your sex life.” And you know what? I agree! That’s why I’ve written three books on sex. (including 31 Days to Great Sex; I don’t talk...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.