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Why Men Go Missing in Bed: Sometimes It’s the Relationship

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 29, 2018 | libido

What if the relationship is what is killing your husband’s sex drive? We’ve been talking about marriages where the wife has the higher libido this week. Often, higher libido simply means that she’s on the higher end of average libido, and he’s...

Is Erectile Dysfunction Killing Your Husband’s Libido?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 28, 2018 | libido, pornography

Could erectile dysfunction be wrecking your husband’s sex drive? This week I’ve been writing for higher-drive wives, and today we’re turning to another reason why a husband’s sex drive might be sub-zero: If he’s suffering from erectile...

Top 10 Things Higher Libido Wives Need to Know

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 26, 2018 | libido

Being a higher libido wife can be very frustrating–if you’re paired with a lower libido man! This week here on the blog I’m talking to wives with a higher libido than their husbands. Yesterday and today I want to address the situation where she has a...

When SHE Has the Higher Sex Drive

by J Parker | Jun 25, 2018 | libido

Are men always the ones with the higher sex drives? Nope. Sometimes it’s SHE who wants sex far more frequently, and this week we’re going to talk about that! Here’s the funny thing about talking about “higher sex drives” and “lower...

Retraining Your Brain to Fantasize about HIM — and No One Else!

by Rebecca Lindenbach | Jun 20, 2018 | libido, Sex

What do you do if you fantasize about romance novels or TV shows, but you can’t seem to fantasize about your husband? It’s Rebecca on the blog today. I wrote a post a while back talking about how sexual desire is not wrong in and of itself, and why sexual...

10 Ways Real Women Rev Their Sex Drives!

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jun 19, 2018 | libido

A woman’s best tool for boosting her libido is her brain. So how can she use her brain to start looking forward to sex tonight? I asked a number of marriage and sex bloggers and authors to give me some good ideas. And I was looking for things that REAL people...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 25 years and happily married for 20! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 8 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.