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PODCAST: New Research Blows Away the Evangelical Idea about Lust

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 17, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts, Pornography

Is lust really every man’s battle? And how do we handle different libidos? It’s launch week for The Good Guy’s Guide to Great Sex and The Good Girl’s Guide to Great Sex, and I wanted to save some of our most important findings from our...

The “Let’s Go to Dinner” Saga–and Why Women May Not Want Sex

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Mar 14, 2022 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

Can we please change the way we talk about women not wanting to have sex? I’ve seen a few videos on TikTok lately where Christian men bemoan the fact that women stop wanting sex once they get married, and call this “emotional damage.” I do agree that...

How Can Men Fix Their Sex Lives if They’ve Gone Downhill?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 28, 2022 | Libido, Sexual Intimacy

What if a guy knows he’s gone down a bad path with his sex life–but he doesn’t know how to get back? Like many of you probably did, I spent much of the weekend watching the invasion of Ukraine by Russia unfold on social media. There were some heartwarming and...

PODCAST: The ABCs of Arousal and the Sexual Response Cycle

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 10, 2022 | Libido, Podcasts

Too many people don’t understand the sexual response cycle–so let’s spell it out and figure out why this lack of info has become so prevalent in evangelicalism! It’s time for a new podcast, and today’s podcast summarizes yesterday’s...

6: Do You Know the Stages of the Sexual Response Cycle?

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 9, 2022 | Libido, Making Sex Feel Good

So…have you ever heard the term “sexual response cycle”? Basically what it means is that our bodies go through distinct stages during sexual arousal and response, leading up to orgasm and then resolving. And many of us don’t understand what...

Theology in the Raw (Really Raw!) Plus More on Frequency

by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Jan 14, 2022 | Libido

More podcasts dropped, a dust up on Facebook, and all about the birds and the bees! It’s been a big week on social media and podcasts. Although, honestly, every Friday as I go to write these round-ups I realize it’s been a big week, and maybe I should just...

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About Sheila

Sheila Wray Gregoire has been married for 29 years and happily married for 24! She loves traveling around North America with her hubby in their RV, giving her signature "Girl Talk" about sex and marriage. And she's written 7 books. About sex and marriage. See a theme here? Plus she knits. Even in line at the grocery store.