by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Feb 14, 2020 | Sexual Intimacy
What is real intimacy? Is it friendship? Sex? Or more? I met my husband while I was in university. We became best friends quite quickly and were soon spending all our time together, telling each other everything. It was wonderful. About a year and a half into that...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Dec 6, 2019 | Libido, Sexual Intimacy
I’ve talked a lot about masturbation in marriage on this blog before. I’ve tended to come down pretty hard on masturbation (I really hope there’s not some ugly double entendre there that I’m not seeing) in the past when it’s done for...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 13, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex
Does having sex with somebody mean that you have a soul tie with them–a spiritual bond that is hard to break? This month at To Love, Honor and Vacuum we’re doing our Wednesday series on soul ties and emotional bonds, because it’s a topic that seems...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Nov 6, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy, Theology of Marriage and Sex
I often get asked if soul ties exist, and, if so, how do you break them? It’s a common enough query that brings people to the blog that I thought it would be worth exploring some of what we mean by “soul tie” for our November series, and talk about...
by Rebecca Lindenbach | Aug 27, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy
When it comes to sex, are there some things that are best kept to yourself?So it’s Tuesday, and I still can’t type.(In fact, this is actually Rebecca writing out the post on Sheila’s behalf again.)Normally we get our posts scheduled a few days ahead...
by Sheila Wray Gregoire | Aug 12, 2019 | Sexual Intimacy
What do you do if your husband wants sex everyday, but isn’t interested at all in how you feel about it or how you feel during it?On Mondays I like to take a reader question and take a stab at answering it, and I thought that, since I hadn’t done an Ask...